Stop Pulling On My Nips!!!

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Registered: 03-30-2004
Stop Pulling On My Nips!!!
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Fri, 07-02-2004 - 9:54am
My SO and I have been together for almost 6 years, great sex I might add!

I love when he nibbles and tugs on my nipples but recently his fetish is to pull HARD and bite HARD on my nipples. I have asked him to treat my nipples gently, but he just replies "Oh stop complaining, I like it." I want to please him and therefore I endure the pain. But the pain turns me off!

I've thought of pulling his "sac" real hard, looking at him straight in the eye, and asking him "THIS IS HOW IT FEELS!!!!" However, that would be the psycho approach.

Any ideas on how I can communicate to him to go easy on my nips?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 07-04-2004 - 11:46am
"If I hurt, I get turned totally off and we get no sex...I'm only human!" THAT has never been reported as failing to work for women as far as I've read. Have you tried that type of discussion at all? Cause if he can't accept you being a normal woman, lol, then you have further issues than just this.

good luck

hubby para

 

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Registered: 07-05-2004
Mon, 07-05-2004 - 9:55pm
Well, being a male myself I don't understand some men's aggression towards women. I mean why pick on women, if u wanna show ur aggression go fight it out with another bully! This guy's probably a pus(cat) who doesn't know how to treat/respect women. If that's the case then there's no need for u to "please" him. Just shove him outa ur drive way.

If he's ok otherwise except for this, reason it out with him outside the bedroom. Some guys are just not sensitive or understanding & it depends on u if u wanna put up with such guys. Some may not realize what they are doing unless pointed out to them. If he's a jerk, show no mercy & bite hard on his nipples!

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