Strange or Not Strange..That is the Q
Find a Conversation
| Sun, 01-30-2005 - 2:28pm |
Okie...Well...*blushing* My DH and I have had a fantastic weekend exploring each other's boundaries...I've broken out of my sexual shell, shall we say, and blossomed into my DH's little dirty minded nympho..That's not the problem...And the sex with my DH isn't the problem..Its always utterly fantastic...Before I get to the question, I need to have a little clarity so that everyone may either laugh at me, offer advice, or tell me how deranged I am...When having sex with my DH, I love listening to him talk about his fantasies with me. One of them was to have anal sex...After much mental debate, I did do it with him and found it quite exhilarating and intoxicating. Well, this afternoon we were in the throes of some sweet sex when I let it slip out that I wish I could turn the tables on him...My DH has always said, "I wish we could switch bodies for a day and have sex so you can see what I see and why I like it and so I can see what you see and feel and understand why you like it." (I remember everything he says)...Well, I told him that I wish I had a strap-on so that I could return the anal favor and so that he can understand the feelings I get from it...Only, I swear like a fishwife in bed, so it was a lot dirtier than just that. So now, my questions are these: Is this strange? And if this has been done by anybody, how was it received? I'm quite satisfied with my sex life with my DH..And I love the experimentation..I love being a woman and embrace my female parts. And I love that he's a man. To me he's incredibly sexy and just turns me on even when he's not naked. I can't keep my hands off him or his penis away from me...I like domination..I love to dominate from time to time in bed and he never minds...But, I'm afraid on this one...I'll pose the questions again? Is this strange? And if this has been done by anybody, how was it received? Please don't bash me..Just offer some friendly advice. Thanks! :)
JennieKG

Pages
>>What is it that makes a lady out of her comfort zone with this...yet...she has such an interest in it anyway.<<
Well, she can be pretty assertive in bed at times. Yet at the same time she's always been a little naieve about a lot of stuff too. I think that she'd enjoy the assertiveness of it and the dominant role. There have been times when we've been having sex (particularly with her on top) where I have definitely felt like the normal male/female roles have been reversed - she's very definitely the one f****** me - thrusting very hard and very assetively as she drives towards her orgasm, with me more passively underneath her. I'm quite OK with that on an irregular basis. I'd feel uncomfortable myself if it happened all the time though.
So, bearing that behaviour in mind, there is something that makes me think that she'd actually enjoy using a strap-on. But she's conservative in bed too so I think that she couldn't bring herself to strap one on and conciously act very "masculine" with her new found appendage and have anal sex - something that she would consider a rather homosexual and kinky act.
The body is willing but the mind resists, I guess.
My own feelings? Yeah, I think that it's kinky. But I also know enough to know how good prostate stimulation feels, and how fun the submissive feeling of the "role-reversal" would be occasionally, and I'm confident enough with my own sexuality to not be worried about whatever homosexual or dom/sub implications it may or may not have.
Ya know what pilgrim?, THAT was very well said and could just about cover ALL aspects of sex.
I think truly enjoying sex really does involve having enough 'self security' to not really care about the "implications" that are constantly out there, whether it be a particular sex act itself or just sexual choices for that matter, even body choices. Hmm...
neat reply
C H A R A C T E R
Issytish, you are TOO funny!
Way to go Jennie. I'm glad it worked out for you both.
There is an instructional video out called "Bend Over Boyfriend", so it can't be that unusual.
Myself, I would really dig the role reversal, but I'm too shy to bring it up to DW. Someday.
John
Pages