strange question

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strange question
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Sun, 05-06-2007 - 4:58pm
Ok maybe a strange question but here goes. My BF is currently deployed for 18 months. He loves for me to be on top when we have sex but I'm not so comfortable with it. It's not that I'm afraid of what he's seeing, I am totally comfortable with myself, but I dont have any experience in this positon. I feel like I dont know what Im doing. Any tips or suggestions?? I know it's wierd, but he really loves it and I want to be able to show him that I do to when he comes home. Thanks so so much!!

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Sun, 05-06-2007 - 5:14pm

Hey girl that's one of my favs!
It's perfect for the clit stimulation. When your on top
if you lean forward and grind that's the best stimulation for a woman.
You can also have him move with you to make the experience better.
I also like to sit strait up and put my hands on his chest and move up and down.
you can also lean back and grind. Plus it's a great view according to DH.
Try moving your hips like your dancing on top of him and pull your legs in
real close where there touching his body. That feels great to!

Give it a try.
Kareese

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Sun, 05-06-2007 - 5:20pm
I've heard thats the best for a woman. lol. but my last partner was always so controlling, but this one hes different. Ill definately have to give it a try when he comes home for 15 days in NOVEMBER!! LOL Long ways away, but I'll deal!

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Sun, 05-06-2007 - 5:52pm

Welcome to the board Tiffany. I hope you'll sign in on the May Roll Call.



It can be very tiring to do WOT, bouncing up and down, for any length of time. I like to mix it up with some of that and a lot of grinding. Try moving your hips in a circular motion or from front to back. You can also try reverse cowgirl by facing his feet. So much about this position (for him) is about the visual of seeing you *enjoy* yourself. The benefit to grinding is that you will be stimulating your clitoris.



You could practice movements by straddling a pillow or two while he's gone. Once you master your moves, let him know you have a surprise for him when you see him in November ;-)



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Sun, 05-06-2007 - 9:16pm

one of our favorite positions.

but the best when being on top for us is that i lean back and put one of my hands behind me and the other rubbing my clit and then arch back while rocking/grinding back and forth and he sits up a little (with a pillow behind his head) and both his hands grabs my breasts. and as i increase the speed he will start to pinch/roll/tug my nipples. and as i'm cumming he will sit up more and take one nipple in his mouth and bite/chew it.

you can also do a variation of being on top by having him sit up more so that he can suck your breasts while you grind.

my husband loves to watch my big tits bounce up and down when i sit straight up.

or you can lean forward and grind while he suckles one nipple and play with the other breasts.

lol! can you tell he's crazy about my tits and that i love breastplay? ;)