Strange question about ejaculation....

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Registered: 10-19-2004
Strange question about ejaculation....
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Sun, 08-21-2005 - 2:26am
Whenever i orgasm, it seems like i barely ejaculate. Im not talking about the semen that comes out, but how strong it comes out. Ive seen on different movies how some men can get a little distance, but most seem to atleast "eject" it a little bit. I on the other hand look similar to a leaky faucet, a few drips and i'm done. Is there some practice or exercise than can be done to improve my ejaculation, keep in mind i'm not trying to meet porn star requirments by any means nor set records, but i am trying to be able to make an impression thats a little stronger than a slow leak.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 11:22am

Every guy is different. Your body works the way YOUR body works, not like other men. Who are you trying to impress? If you're having intercourse, she'll never know the difference, anyway.

As far as "porn stars" are concerned, one of the reasons they ARE porn stars is because they're "different". If all men were alike, then they wouldn't be a "novelty".

How old are you, and how often do you masturbate? I'm guessing young, and often. Try backing off some to let the semen build up......that might make a difference.

In any case, most women are not impressed by pressure or distance....they're more concerned with how long before it happens. If and when you get married, and you want to have children......those few drops will contain millions of sperm, and they will do the job just fine....it doesn't take "pressure" to get the job done.

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Registered: 08-11-2004
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 12:26pm
The vagina doesn't have a lot of nerve endings inside. If you're having intercourse and ejaculate, the woman does not have any idea of how much you ejaculated or with how much force. There's nothing to worry about.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 7:45pm
It really doesn't matter. Everyone is different and if you think that in the long run a woman is going to be impressed by your new found super-powers of extreme ejeculation, then you're wrong. :-) Stop worrying about what you've seen in the porn movies.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 8:18pm

I agree with the others, whether you shoot or dribble, it doesn't matter.


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Registered: 10-19-2004
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 11:04pm
I appreciate ya'lls input, and thanks for clearing up the thing about the vagina. Thats the point i was getting at, I always thought it would be a stronger sensation for her if my orgasm was stronger. I'm not want to measure up to a porn star, i'd kill my GF. I was just trying to give her some more sensation from my orgasm. Thanks to all. Although the ability to hit the headboard from time to time would just be some good clean fun! ;)
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Registered: 07-06-2004
Mon, 08-22-2005 - 7:04pm

> the woman does not have any idea of how much you ejaculated
I thought a measure of what went in is measured by what quantity came back out later? Plus the immediate flowback.

Sure, people are all different. At his age, his prostate should throw it several feet. It could be the valves, the pump, etc. I'd mention the lack of distance to a discerning doctor. Much of a male's physical pleasure is feeling the volume and speed rushing along the length. More just plain feels better.

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Tue, 08-23-2005 - 12:54pm

Wait, is this a troll? You're clearly giving wrong information. Besides, the OP -never- mentioned how old he was.

I have had the opportunity to observe this because the preference of most men I've been with, as well as current bf is not to release inside me, but we always leave the lights on so I have watched them cum many times. Only once in a great while have I seen a guy shoot it more than a foot or so, and even then it's just the first couple of squirts. More often, it just goes a few inches. Sometimes my current bf doesn't shoot at all, and his penis just oozes the stuff out.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 08-23-2005 - 1:37pm

No, Sumguy is not a troll.


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Registered: 07-06-2004
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 1:37pm

> Wait, is this a troll?
Yes, this troll has been the owner and operator of a penis for decades. While solo or showtime with a partner, without a paper towel or palm it shoots 3-5 feet. I assume that's normal as I've only seen one penis ejaculate in my life. It seems reasonable as those sharp hard almost painful prostate contractions ought to sling it as least as far as a simple bladder does for another function.

It's interesting that you and your partners mostly prefer the external show. All of my partners have preferred I stay inside for the finale. Different strokes...

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Registered: 08-08-2005
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 1:44pm

Ok...I have to ask...what's a troll?

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