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| Fri, 08-03-2007 - 7:11pm |
I am interested in anal sex.I'm looking for advice on how to ask my girlfriend,to use a strapon on me.I don't want her to think i'm a freek or gay.How can i bring it up.Any info you have would be good.

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It was really strange for me to feel sexy the first time I shaved everythng, I mean, it felt good but I looked at it and well, had to chuckle. Of course, it does appear to make one look more endowed, but i am good there. For me, the challange was getting over how it looked to me, as long as it made her hot. I am really pretty open to most anything. It would turn me on because it turns her on. As far as strapon, believe it or not I am tryng to come up with an idea that would make strap on sex intensely enjoyable and orgasmic, I am talking G spot here, with any dildo you might want to use.
Solve et Coagu
"...problem is that I just dont have that kind of build. I am athletic and broad, imagine linebacker!"
Well...I do not think that a lot of women have linebacker builds either to be donning a strap on. ;-)
The point is, that yes, of course we want to do things that excite our partner, but if they make us feel out of sorts, it could backfire (no pun intended). ;-) Maybe it's just me, but I don't get excited if I know my DH is not getting turned on or into whatever it is he's doing. For some reason, I get unexcited (hence backfire).
Now on the opposite end of the spectrum, there's the "Zorro" garb... (phew!)
I guess I should have read the thread first before responding, as I basically repeated what Tish and some of the others have said. Serves me right, but sometimes I don't have the time and read the OP and just want to get my thoughts down.
Solve et Coagu
D/s power exchange during sex can be powerfully erotic, and a huge turn-on for both participants.
Then there are times when the strapon play is purely the pleasure of having her do that with me, along with the pleasure of knowing she will cum hard as well. It has nothing to do with power or control, just the pleasure of having her inside me, in a sense. The feeling of her grabbing my hips and penetrating me, the way i might enter her. Feeling her get close and dig her fingers in, then really give it to me before she loses it. It just means more to me than power exchange.
Solve et Coagu
I agree with you. To me it's all about pleasing each other not who is in control...
SexyPRgirl
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