Stress on back with certain position

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Registered: 11-21-2004
Stress on back with certain position
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Tue, 05-24-2005 - 11:53pm

My bf and I have been experimenting with positions since... we started having sex obviously lol and we've done one position in particular that I honestly LOVE. It hits a really really amazing spot (the front vaginal wall..whether it's the disputed GSPOT, I don't know) and sorry but I don't know the proper term of it so if anyone knows please let me know.

My question is, when we do it, it kind of puts stress on my back because I have to tilt my back so that my vagina is close enough for penetration. I was wondering is there any way that can help ease that stress put on the back? From experience or just any random ideas, please share.

Thanks.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 05-25-2005 - 8:44am
What position are you in, on your back, on your stomach, etc.

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Registered: 11-21-2004
Wed, 05-25-2005 - 10:05am
It's kind of like spooning but we're both on our backs.
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Wed, 05-25-2005 - 11:10am

Owwww, sounds like he's straining his back in that position, too, since you're both having to arch your pelvises to reach.

Why not have him lie on his side while you remain on your back with your legs over his hip? Your bodies will form an "X." Less strain on both your backs that way.

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Registered: 05-25-2005
Wed, 05-25-2005 - 8:53pm


i still dont get the position. How are u both on your back in a spooning position? are you on top of him with your back to his chest?

well anywho! there are a few positions i know of that work with less stress on the back to hit the spot you want. try both standing and him entering from behind, you can brace yourself on a wall and bend forward a little until you feel what you are looking for. the other position is with you on top of him facing his feet, now instead of your legs over his, put your legs under his, lean forward and rotate your hips in a figure 8 motion.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Thu, 05-26-2005 - 8:04pm

Pillows!!!!!!!!!
Stuff them under his back, and between your back and his stomach.

Here's a thought, have you tried missionary with a pillow under your hips? You might find that he hits the same spot, but in a much easier position.