Stressing over the anal sex and UTI.

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Registered: 01-22-2006
Stressing over the anal sex and UTI.
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Tue, 11-14-2006 - 12:15am
Hi there,
I just posted a thread on anal sex....and I am concerned over one issue.....
I may of mentioned that we had anal sex, he finished inside me. He showered right away after. I don't know if he urinated or not, but I know that this prevents a UTI in him.
Should I be concerned?
How strong is the chance of him getting a UTI? Is this very common? And would him "coming" inside of me somewhat help get any bacteria out?
Also, in talking with him today, he did tell me that after he did it with me, he was not a big fan of anal sex. I appreciate the honesty, but, just felt the need to share that. In a way, I almost feel like I let him down......
Igrl
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 1:57am

If he did it without a condom, and he gets an infection, that's HIS problem.

I don't know why you're stressing over all this stuff when it's nothing more than a FWB! Exactly how did you let HIM down? You're not responsible if he doesn't know how to protect himself. You didn't force him to do it and he has nothing to complain about.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 7:38am
Why should you be concerned?

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Registered: 01-22-2006
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 12:30pm
Dakine,
FWB has turned into something so much more for me. I worry. His problem. I know. Just having a hard time with this, and I know why.......
Igrl
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Registered: 11-03-2006
Tue, 11-14-2006 - 2:17pm
I would worry about it,for BF.You gotta figure his penis is going into a very dirty,ca-ca(lol)comes out of there.that is where the toxins come out,i think i heard that from my doctor or something.even though we have attepted(drunk).so i'm being a hypocrite.it didn't work,too much gerth.Anyways if he showers afterwards it's not so bad. Not for me,to each his own.
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Registered: 11-18-2006
Sun, 11-19-2006 - 8:20pm
Women have more cause for concern over UTI because the way our bodies are made. I enjoy anal and thank goodness so does my lvr. I 'prepare' by douching up my kabooz to clean it out. Also,my lover & I save the anal for last so that he does not bring any bacteria inside me. If moment gets frisky and we get there first, he washes up before he gets back in the 'front door'. Looses some spontainety, but beats not having sex for days because of UTI.