Stressing over the anal sex and UTI.
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Stressing over the anal sex and UTI.
| Tue, 11-14-2006 - 12:15am |
Hi there,
I just posted a thread on anal sex....and I am concerned over one issue.....
I may of mentioned that we had anal sex, he finished inside me. He showered right away after. I don't know if he urinated or not, but I know that this prevents a UTI in him.
Should I be concerned?
How strong is the chance of him getting a UTI? Is this very common? And would him "coming" inside of me somewhat help get any bacteria out?
Also, in talking with him today, he did tell me that after he did it with me, he was not a big fan of anal sex. I appreciate the honesty, but, just felt the need to share that. In a way, I almost feel like I let him down......
Igrl
I just posted a thread on anal sex....and I am concerned over one issue.....
I may of mentioned that we had anal sex, he finished inside me. He showered right away after. I don't know if he urinated or not, but I know that this prevents a UTI in him.
Should I be concerned?
How strong is the chance of him getting a UTI? Is this very common? And would him "coming" inside of me somewhat help get any bacteria out?
Also, in talking with him today, he did tell me that after he did it with me, he was not a big fan of anal sex. I appreciate the honesty, but, just felt the need to share that. In a way, I almost feel like I let him down......
Igrl

If he did it without a condom, and he gets an infection, that's HIS problem.
I don't know why you're stressing over all this stuff when it's nothing more than a FWB! Exactly how did you let HIM down? You're not responsible if he doesn't know how to protect himself. You didn't force him to do it and he has nothing to complain about.
FWB has turned into something so much more for me. I worry. His problem. I know. Just having a hard time with this, and I know why.......
Igrl