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Stretched out?
| Sat, 07-09-2005 - 8:01pm |
Last March, my boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up. We had regular sex for the entire time we dated, and he had a large penis. Now I'm seeing someone new, and he is considerably smaller. This is no problem to me, but he didn't come when we had sex. Could it be that I'm "stretched out" from my previous, well-endowed boyfriend and it isn't tight enough for my new guy??? Or since it was a first time, maybe it was a nerves thing??? i'm worried!

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I think it has more to do with pressure and resistance than with stretching.
As we know the vagina is a collapsed potential space, not a hole, but there is a vascular layer directly behind it which "fills" up with blood when aroused. As it fills up it pushes against the vaginal walls and creates more pressure(inside the vagina). The larger the item inserted, the more pressure is felt.
Lets for arguments sake say that the vascular layer below the vaginal walls can hold 1 cup of blood. Now lets insert the vagina inside of an empty 1 cup jar with a lid. Then lets fill the cup with blood. If we insert a small penis inside the vagina the amount of pressure created inside the vaginal walls is less than when the larger penis is inserted. Now picture the same exact experiment, with no blood at all in the jar. There'll be no pressure, less sensation. All that the vagina will feel is the initial stretching to the size inserted. Lastly, visualize how different amounts of blood (1/4 cup, 1/2 cup/ 3/4 cup) would yield different amounts of "resistance" felt within the vagina.
It's not really about stretching out the vagina to the max to get a better feel, but more that a larger penis takes up more space and therefore takes less engorgement for her to feel more pressure. So don't think that a woman who wants a larger penis wants it because she's stretched out....it's most likely because a larger penis creates more resistance. But a large penis inserted into a 1/2 full jar will probably yield the same amount of pressure as a smaller penis inserted into a fully filled jar.
Edited 7/14/2005 3:44 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
We used condoms years ago on and off and Dh always had a more difficult time when using them.
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