striptease

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Registered: 09-04-2005
striptease
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Sat, 11-05-2005 - 6:36pm
Help. I am planning a striptease for my boyfriend for Christmas, but I don't know what music to put on. Can you give me some ideas on what to play? Thanks.
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Registered: 11-06-2005
In reply to: shan001
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 3:19pm

Heya,
I've just posted the exact same question on another board! LOL, except it's for my bf's birthday.
I guess it depends on what type of music you and your bf enjoy, as I asked on 'have hotter sex, ask laura corn' my bf and I hate rap, hip hop, r&b, pop, dance etc, but we like rock...Problem being that strtipping to rock music reminds me of those nasty 80's music videos with the skanky women looking awlful and tacky!

I think it also depends on what 'type' of strip you want to do?
I'm after a 'tasteful' strip, so some music thats been rolling in my mind has been Groove Armada, Enigma, Moby - that sort of thing...I'm just scared that my bf won't like the music and think it's 'weird' lol, it's a hard thing to decided ;)

Let me know If you find something you like, Good luck !

Kathryn

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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: shan001
Mon, 11-07-2005 - 3:06pm
Trust me, he won't be conciously listening to the music. ;-)
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Registered: 02-04-2004
In reply to: shan001
Mon, 11-07-2005 - 10:51pm

i read (somewhere else on an ivillage message board) this same question and a lot of the replies suggested rock music. and i do recall over the summer on a radio station they had dj's from strip clubs on the air talking about what kinda music girls request for their dance and the dj's said the same thing. mostly rock music.

off the top of my head...
leave your hat on - joe cocker (personal fav)
never tear us apart - inxs
closer - nine inch nails
what kind of love are you on - aerosmith
pour some sugar on me - def leppard (Personal fav)

Music Instructor - Technical Lover (if you can find it, another universally accepted SEXY song, especially with a good light show)
Brooks and Dunn - Rock My World Little Country Girl (Put a cowgirl outfit on for this one)
(the last 2 were from a strip club dj)

and last but definitely not least my ABSOLUTE favourite, most sexy song ever........(drum roll please)
LICK by Joi (XXX soundtrack)

 

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Registered: 05-12-2003
In reply to: shan001
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 10:54am
I stripped for my husband at our bachelor/bachelorette party to Def Lepard, Pour some sugar on me...everyone said it was great
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Registered: 11-04-2003
In reply to: shan001
Fri, 11-11-2005 - 7:24pm

I haven't seen people address the other aspects of a strip tease. They know to have music and that the way the girl dresses is part of it, but there are other things that can also have a real impact. Think of the atmosphere at a strip club. They are dark with lights focused on the girl and the music is overwhelming in it's volume.

What it aims at is an overload of the senses. The music has more effect if it's loud and on a good system, especially where you can feel the pounding beat. A lot of people aren't aware that a rhythmic pounding beat has a physiological reaction that can actually change your own heart rate and get you excited. Incense can also help, if both of you are people that can take it - some people can't take incenses or heavy smells at all. Personally, I love overpowering rose, jasmine, honeysuckle or musk, enough so that I buy the scented liquids that go in the little electric pots.

There is a neat scene in the movie, "Delta of Venus" where you can see the effect of pounding music on sexual arousal. There's a scene where a guy tells the story of a party that turned into an orgy. Reveiwers think the movie sucked, I'm not wild about it, but that one scene is great to learn from.

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Registered: 11-11-2005
In reply to: shan001
Fri, 11-11-2005 - 9:08pm

I don't know if you want a christmas theme or not, but a few unchristmasy songs are:

If I was your girlfriend-tlc or a few others on their CrazySexyCool album
your body's callin OR sex me-RKelly.Hes got great others too
Cater2u-Destiny's child also T-Shirt on same album
Freek-n-U-jodeci
my body by lsg
you may not be into r&b but it is some of the sexiest sh@%,how about after your little show,you might wanna keep some mood music going

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Registered: 08-08-2005
In reply to: shan001
Sun, 11-13-2005 - 10:52pm
Just came upon your post and i know the input is not too late cuz you are planning it for christmas.......well, i did a strip for my husband or was he still by bf then, can't remember..anyway, i set the scene, i set it up ohhhh, he was my husband then cuz i did it in my basement where there was a pole :p I had a robe on dimed the lights, actually i had a purple light it was soooo cool...i tired his hands behind his back in cuffs i bought from one of those sex parties and hung sheets so that i can come out like on a stage...he he... one of the songs i remember i did was by melissa ethrith, i'm the only one...very sexy moves to that music :) and i did about three different outfits...my husband went crazy and on the last one, i did a lap dance and ofcourse he could not touch me cuz his hands were cuffed...well then....he went nuts, i gave him a bj ..hands still tied...omg it was great...you will have time to think on something...have fun with it :O) peace for now