StripTease Tips?

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Registered: 05-21-2004
StripTease Tips?
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Thu, 07-01-2004 - 3:31pm
OK!

I'm looking for any tips or advice for a first timer! I'm in a great new relationship, I'm having really great sex, Feeling very good about my body (after working my butt off at the gym -literally- this past year), feeling confident...and am thinking about giving my guy a little strip show this weekend! He has no idea and hasn't asked for it- just something i'd love to do!!

Looking for any tips, songs, ideas etc- despite all my confidence i am a BIT shy, weirdly about this!! Thanks!

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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: kcbelle
Thu, 07-01-2004 - 5:25pm
KC - All my tips are on the other board. Good luck & have fun!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: kcbelle
Thu, 07-01-2004 - 6:39pm
Have a couple of glasses of wine first so that you're less self conscious...and use a song that makes you feel sexy. Wear easily removed clothing, like a buttoned shirt and skirt that you can slip out of without a lot of fumbling. Decide how far you'll go beforehand, totally nude or just down to a g-string and stockings.

Eye contact is also important. And use that pride in your body to the best advantage, touch yourself a lot but insist that he can't until you're ready. Have fun.

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Registered: 10-09-2003
In reply to: kcbelle
Thu, 07-01-2004 - 6:46pm
Red light really sets the mood. Buy a red light bulb. Also, layer your clothing(to stretch across the length of the song). Wear a rain coat and sexy clothing underneath(short skirt or sexy dress), and then sexier objects ;-) underneath those. Since you're in good shape, practice some sexy bending and stretching. Practice with a chair(need something to lift the leg)...and most of all, have fun with it. If you mess up, laugh at yourself. ;-)
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Registered: 04-08-2004
In reply to: kcbelle
Fri, 07-02-2004 - 10:11am
A very important thing to remember as free said. If you mess up, just laugh at yourself. It will break the tension he will suddenly feel. Also it will show him that you are just trying to have fun with it. Laughing at our own errors is the easiest way to recover from them as well. If my SO were to do a strip tease and messed up some how, and began laughing, I would be all over her from that point on. It shows confidence above all else. And that is one of the most sexy things to men. Confidence in yourself, and your abilities.
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Registered: 05-21-2004
In reply to: kcbelle
Fri, 07-02-2004 - 11:22am
Thanks all for the tips!

Wish me luck, provided i don't totally chicken out, i will be giving it a whirl this weekend!! and what good timing, the 4th of july is his FAVE holiday! fireworks both outside and inside!!

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Registered: 05-21-2004
In reply to: kcbelle
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 2:26pm
Hey All!

(this is on the Sexual Pleasure: ORgasms and More page too)- but i wanted to report in that I DID IT!! this past weekend and i would (and plan to) most DEFINITELY do it again!

it was SUCH a great experience.

i picked some great tunes, a great outfit and while being a touch nervous at first, once i started i really got into it! he couldn't keep his hands off me- and frankly off himself for a little bit there!

see the sexual pleasure pages for more details, but thanks for the support and tips, i LOVED it!!

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Registered: 05-18-2004
In reply to: kcbelle
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 2:59pm
Glad it worked out for you, fun isn't it?

Leticia