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| Thu, 04-12-2007 - 6:12pm |
So my DW sent me an email asking me to "Name some things that drive me wild when she does them." And to "Tell her some things that I really like but don't get to do much of." She then states the obvious ones that she refuses to do (anal, swallowing, facial)
My delima, I didn't know what to tell her. Just about everything feels great, and nothing really "drives me wild". I came up with a couple things that I would like to do more of or even try, but for the life of me I can't think of any more.
What are some abnormal, or even normal for some people, things you guys do to add a little kink to your sex life? The one I told her was cumming on her chest and having her rub it in like lotion.
I need to hear some little things like that so I can pick and choose if it would be something I would like to do. Thanks in advance for your replies.
HD

How about suggesting to her that you send her one idea a day for the next "x" days. Then you have time to really think about individual things that you like (and maybe even experience or fantasize about some of them). Some of the things can be the "really drive me wild" things and others can be the "would like more of" things. No matter what, it's going to keep sex with each other on each of your minds ;-)
Also, don't limit yourself to thinking about just the things that she does for you -- ways she touches you, etc., but think about what you do to her that drives you wild as well.
I know there are very subtle things that DH does that do enhance our experience. Often, I want him to do them, but I don't mention them, and then if he does do them, it drives me wild, KWIM?
Here's an example ... we love doggy style, but often DH is holding my hips or sometimes he tries to put his hands in a way so that I can move freely. Less often, he lightly strokes my butt or puts his hands on my shoulders pulls me towards him -- and it's at just the right time, and it drives me wild. Just think about any act that the two of you do and break it down into smaller steps and really look at what gets you going in each step.