suggestions anyone

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Registered: 04-18-2006
suggestions anyone
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Wed, 05-23-2007 - 3:14pm

i need some suggestions...............the other night my bf and me were having sex and i decided to try some of that k y warming jell, well first it isn't warming, but anyway back to my point it irritated me. afterwards i had some burning and itching, but now all that is gone. last night we had sex and i was perfectly fine.

is isn't that i need the extra lubrication, b/c that is definitely not a problem, sometimes we just like the different feelings of slipperyness (is that a word?) anyway, just wondering if anyone else has the problem of being irritated and if there is anything out there that won't do that.

i can't take bubble baths or use scented soap b/c i am sensitive to that too.

thanks!!!!

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 3:43pm

I don't use any KY products, years ago KY caused irritation and I haven't used it since.

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Wed, 05-23-2007 - 3:51pm

thanks. i think that i have heard of that.

i enjoy anal and usually am wet enough myself for that too. does astroglide make it even more enjoyable?

and what about smell or taste? i don't have a problem giving head after intercouse (vaginally) but if astroglide has a taste i wouldn't like that and neither would my bf when he goes down on me.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 4:03pm

There's no scent to Astroglide and I have no idea on taste.

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 4:16pm

The KY warming liquid only really warms up when you blow on it.

C

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Registered: 04-18-2006
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 4:17pm
thanks for the info!!
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 4:43pm

Welcome to the board twilliams352003.

I think I would try for a plain water based lube, no fancy tricks, if you are easily irritated. I haven't tried the warming jelly, but I am also sensitive to many soap products.

Before you try Astroglide, you might want to make sure it is safe to ingest (since that was part of your question). I've never been sure about that. For oral lube, we use a flavored lube from H20. It's only available in adults stores, web sites, etc. It has never caused irritation.

I did recently see flavored lube at our local CVS. Not sure who made it, but I feel safe with flavored lubes for oral. There are some lubes that do say they are for 'external use only' too.



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Wed, 05-23-2007 - 4:49pm

i went to the astroglide website and ordered 2 different kinds. one was strawberry flavored (obviously okay for your mouth) and then the other was glycerin & paraben-free - whatever in the heck that is, but i figured it was lacking something and that something might be what irritates me.

either way, if i don't like either one of them then i can always just stick with good 'ol me!!!!

all this thinking about sex has got me wanting to go home and get laid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

oops.........can i say that here?

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Wed, 05-23-2007 - 4:56pm

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Wed, 05-23-2007 - 5:03pm
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Wed, 05-23-2007 - 5:07pm

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