Surprise My Husband

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Registered: 12-04-2003
Surprise My Husband
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Sat, 11-05-2005 - 1:48pm
I have been really horny lately and I want to do something that would make my Husband get really hot and heavy Any suggestions. I am usually very reserved so he wouldnt expect this of me. Any good ideas would help......
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 11-05-2005 - 6:31pm

There are a lot of things you can do to get him hot but it depends on what he really likes and what turns him on.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 11-05-2005 - 8:39pm
As a man, I just love my wife to be braless (unknown to me) and she suddenly lifts up her shirt and exposses them to me. It is the suddenness that evokes the shock. This is for an initial turn on. You can also be without panties!! Then he can take it from there!!
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Registered: 11-02-2005
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 5:01pm
Anything out of the "norm" will be exciting. You could possibly be naked underneath a normal "everyday" dress and walk up to him and start to get him going when he least expects it- watching sports, on the phone, etc. With no no knowledge of whats to come, that should work out well for him- and you!!
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Registered: 11-01-2005
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 7:08pm
Trying a new position generally works, if you usually have man on top do woman on top. SUrprise him, push him on the bed and tease him for a while before sex, my partner loves it when i get rough and tell him what to do.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 8:13pm
Like the other posters are saying, I think that anything, even small things, can be good. Initiating sex in a myriad of ways, or just plain doing something that shows that you are thinking about sex with him before he initiates it is good in your situation. He's going to get a good surprise when he realises that YOU are horney and that YOU want sex and are thinking "sexy". Underwear - fancy on, or lack of underneath a skirt is good. Candles, massages, a special dinner, organising a night out at a hotel, buying a sex toy or a blue movie, taking charge, meeting him at the door and throwing him on the floor, being sexy in front of his and masturbating for him if you don't normally do that, explicit messages on the fridge magnet or telephone or by text, there are thousands of things that you can do. If you've never done them before any of them will surprise him.
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Registered: 10-13-2005
Mon, 11-07-2005 - 12:06pm
My DW is usually very reserved also, never very vocal about what she wants, so when she tells me what she wants me to do to her I go wild even if it's something we do very often anyway. For example we both love oral but when she says "I want to suck it" or "I want you to lick it" its so much hotter. My very favorite is when she just gets on all fours and says "I want it in my a$$", it never fails to surprise me and totally turn me on even after 20 years. It doesn't have to be elaborate just a slight hot variation.