Swallow: fast or slow?

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Swallow: fast or slow?
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Sat, 07-24-2004 - 7:16pm
hello. my first time here. Had a question for ladies mainly. My wife will swallow me quickly when i cum from her giving me a BJ. I just wanted to know if that is the most common method women use to swallow. I was wondering if women keep the cum in their mouths and taste, savor, feel, etc. the cum before swallowing it. The reason I ask is maybe my wife doesn't want to taste my cum at all (which is fine). Just curious what other women do and why they do it. thanks

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Sat, 07-24-2004 - 7:34pm
CHOWDAH!

Sorry, had to. As for the question, I've always swallowed quickly, too. I can still taste the semen regardless. It isn't that I don't like it, it's just easiest to swallow right away and avoid a possible mess. But that's just me.

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Sat, 07-24-2004 - 7:39pm

Hi Boston


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Sat, 07-24-2004 - 7:48pm
Cum has a taste that ranges from almost no taste at all to one that is sort of bitter. Most women don't really mind the taste but the texture is a whole other thing. Most of the women I know don't like the thick almost slimy texture of cum. So we generally try to have it shot in the back of our throats so that we miss that texture. Of course, this means that it is swallowed rather quickly. I do know one woman who will hold it in her mouth, place it at the tip of her tongue and show it to her husband. This requires her to hold it until he has regain his composure enough to appreciate the sight. She does this because it entertains him, not because she particularly appreciates the taste and texture of his cum. Until she had shared that with me, I had never thought about how appealing her savoring his cum might be to him. I think you will find some women on here will report they savor their man's cum, but I think in most cases what we women savor is pleasing our men. And if that means holding his cum in our mouths for a little longer, some of us will be very willing to do that. You will also find a number of women who won't swallow because they can't handle the taste or more often the texture of cum. These women want to please their man, but they just can't make themself take his cum in his mouth. On one board I read stories from men who lament that their wives won't do BJs and these men envy that you have a woman who will not only do a BJ on you but will swallow. So I think your wife is on the upper end of the BJ to completion continuum. If you think it would be hot for her to hold your cum in her mouth, then you might ask her to do so. And if she complies, she will be at the very top of that continuum.

Robin

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Sat, 07-24-2004 - 9:44pm
Frankly, I just do it quickly, all in one gulp. I just let it all gather on one side or in the back and then swallow. I don't really let myself taste it too much.

I really wouldn't want to savor the taste because it's rather like swallowing a large wad of phlegm and I don't find that too appealing...not much taste but such a slimy texture. I'd rather swallow and chase with a sip of water. But that's just me!

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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 1:53am
I agree with the others....it's not the taste, it's the consistency. Of the millions and millions and millions of women who do it, there are probably just as many different ways of doing it. Rather than wondering, or trying to analyze it, you just should be grateful that she does it. Many women won't even give oral sex, let alone let you "cum" in their mouth.

A long time ago, my SO and I were talking, and he said that it wasn't fair, he could taste me, I could taste myself if he kissed me, but he'd never tasted himself. So I thought about that, and thought I was very clever.....I'd thought of a way for him to taste himself. I didn't swallow it, and I kissed him! He loved it! Not too much later, I found out that I hadn't invented it...it's very common, and it's called "snowballing".

There's nothing new under the sun! I laugh when I read posts from people who think they've invented something new.....when it's nothing new at all.....

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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 10:06am
Here's one more woman agreeing that the thick, slimy consistency is not something I want in my mouth for very long. The taste is okay...not horrible but not something I'd want to drink for breakfast every morning. ;-) When I do swallow, I try to do it fast...and sometimes I'm just not in the mood, so I catch the first little mouthful and then finish with my hand. (He's in the heights of orgasm so I don't really think he notices or cares at that point!) Just be glad you're getting a blow job.
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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 12:12pm
Fast baby fast.
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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 1:50pm
My first bj to completion was back in college with an awesome g/f I had for 2 years. She was by far the most nonchalant swallower I've ever been with. A few seconds after, it was like, "what??? no big deal!" There wasn't a single drop spilled through many, many of 'em. What I really don't like are the women who grimace or don't make a fun show of it -- I mean just don't start it off, it's no big deal. LOL, come to think of it, I twice had g/fs who simply refused to have a penis in their mouths; it just wasn't gonna happen. Both extremely beautiful and I wondered if there's some correlation or what.

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Sun, 07-25-2004 - 9:29pm
I've read the other responses and for me, it's not the texture but the taste and more specifically the aftertaste that I love with my bf. Interestingly enough, I really didn't like giving my ex-husband bj's because I didn't like the way he tasted. If I did, I rarely swallowed.

My bf on the other hand gets it all the time. I LOVE going down on him and staying there, all over until there's nothing left! Yum!!! ;-)

To answer your question, I don't necessarily swallow fast but I definitely swallow it all.

~Love

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Mon, 07-26-2004 - 11:30am
Yes, I think most women who swallow, do so quickly.

Have YOU tasted your ejaculate? Maybe you should to see just what she's experiencing.

I don't swallow but I do allow my DH to finish in my mouth. I spit into tissues because he could care less about what I choose to do with it. He likes to lie back and savor his orgasm with his eyes closed, so he wouldn't see it anyway!

His semen is very mild tasting though.

You might consider drinking more water if your semen is very thick or strong tasting. But really, swallowing, much less "savoring" should be her choice.

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