swallowing?

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Registered: 11-30-2006
swallowing?
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Mon, 11-12-2007 - 6:31pm

Hey everyone,

I have a question about oral sex, concerning swallowing at the end. My last boyfriend said he loved me going down on him, but would always stop me before he came...whether or not we were going have sex. But I've gone down on my new boyfriend only once so far...and he was very respectful about it...we were jsut fooling around and he was like "would you mind going down? it's totally fine if you don't want too!" and so i thought about it for a few mins while we were kissing and i did cause i was comfy. he let me know when he was coming and after he came he was like "that was amazing! thanks baby! do you want a ...?" and he was going for a tissue i guess...but i had already swallowed and asked "want a what?" and he cracked up, laughed and tackled me...and was like well, you already swallowed so i guess that means you don't want a tissue to spit haha"

why did they differ on this?

I know i never asked my ex why or why not, but he'd always lift my head up and start kissing my/ pull up his boxers after 5-10mins or so....

and what do guys think of girls who swallow? is it gross? do you not want to kiss us after?

thanks!!

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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: nyc22066
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 6:42pm

All guys are different, they like different things so that's why the two guys you are talking about differ.

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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: nyc22066
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 6:42pm
I'd hazard a guess that most guys will say that a woman who swallows is a huge turn on — and definitely NOT gross! My DW is a spitter, not a swallower, but I'd have no issue with kissing her after I came in her mouth either way.






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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: nyc22066
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 6:45pm
LOL Tish — I seem to be following you around tonight, answering the same threads at the same time. Just call me Steve the stalker! ;o)






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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: nyc22066
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 7:06pm

Keep on stalking Steve.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: nyc22066
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 8:39pm

Welcome to the board, nyc22066.

As Tish said, each guy (and gal) is going to be different. I've never met a guy who thought it was gross for a girl to swallow. It sounds like your guy may not have experienced that before. Some guys may not want to kiss after cumming in your mouth (just as they wouldn't want to go down on you after IC), but again, that depends on the guy.





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Registered: 11-12-2007
In reply to: nyc22066
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 2:49am

I never met a guy who thought it was nasty for a girl to swallow but most not all but most think its nasty to kiss afterwards because the taste and spell..


I used to always swallow but my DH don't get turn on because he just came he don't need to be turned on anymore... so I don't swallow anymore unless I just feel like it which is rarely and I'm fine with it because its not the best tasting thing in the world.. hehe and he is fine with it too.

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Registered: 10-07-2007
In reply to: nyc22066
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 5:39pm

My Hubby does not like for me to swallow.