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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 5:18pm
I just started letting my bf cum in my mouth but I spit it out. I know that he would like me to swallow but it scares me. Any thoughts on how to get over it because I really want to give him as much pleasure as possible.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 5:35pm
Well, the fact is that swallowing WON'T give him more physical pleasure than you're already providing him. He may or may not enjoy watching and knowing that you swallowed, some men do, but it's not going to change what he's already experienced.

But IF you want to try, then keep a soda or other drink nearby and take a sip after swallowing to clear your throat. OR use a flavored lubricant to disguise some of the taste. We ARE talking about a teaspoon of fluid here, so it's really not that much to get down.

Do what you feel comfortable doing though and don't make this a big deal. In the big scheme of his pleasure, it doesn't add much to what you've already done for him.

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Registered: 04-13-2004
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 5:37pm
Teaspoon? No way. It is much more than a teaspoon.
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 5:40pm
I think the other poster gave you a couple of ideas (in fact, I think keeping something close to drink on hand is a great idea if you know when and where it's going to happen - how come I never thought of that? hmmm ...) lol.

Sometimes it's just spur of the moment for us and there I am - gagging down his climax. Ugh. I hate it too, but like you, want to please him. I think him climaxing in your mouth is also a great visual for them and that gives them more pleasure as well.

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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 5:42pm
what about it scares you? personally, i think swallowing is easier than spitting it out.
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 5:58pm
The average man ejaculates a teaspoon or slightly more. IF you need proof, ask a urologist.
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 5:59pm
I am just worried that I will throw up on him or something. I don't know.
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 6:04pm
Key word is "average". lol
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 6:07pm
I've come close to losing it - it's not a pretty sight nor sound. If you really feel this strongly about it, don't do it. I only do it because I need to please my hubby. Maybe he will be satisfied with just giving you a facial? (I don't like those either), but it's better than in my mouth! Just a thought.
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 6:28pm
have you had a gag reflex thus far? it's kinda like taking cough syrup -- just aim it toward the back of your tongue and swallow in one gulp -- this way you avoid the tastebuds up front.
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 6:44pm
Cum has a huge after-taste. Huge! I can't get rid of it for hours it seems. I think I'm going to put a glass of soda beside me next time though - like a diet coke or something strong like that.

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