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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 5:18pm
I just started letting my bf cum in my mouth but I spit it out. I know that he would like me to swallow but it scares me. Any thoughts on how to get over it because I really want to give him as much pleasure as possible.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 6:56pm

Do what you are comfortable with doing.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 7:05pm
are you aiming it toward the back of the tongue to avoid tastebuds? the trouble with taste comes if you let it coat your tongue (that's why i don't completely understand how spitting could be better than swallowing)
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Registered: 04-13-2004
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 7:12pm
I don't spit. I try not to swallow. I don't like it, so it just goes all over the place. It's really not something I have control over - as you know about my hubby.
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 7:19pm
What does your DH have to do with her BF though? I would guess he's not the "cheek buster" your man is. LOL!
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 7:24pm
Why not give yourself time to get used to him finishing in your mouth first? Then, if you want to try swallowing later, you can. Or not. And if you throw up on him, so what? At least you tried.

Don't overthink this though, once you do it, you'll wonder what you were so concerned about.

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Registered: 04-13-2004
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 7:32pm
What? Are you posting about?
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Registered: 05-18-2004
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Tue, 08-03-2004 - 8:27pm
I have found that the way that works for me, is for him to let me know when he is about to cum(whether it be with a moan, words, sometimes I can tell just by the way he moves) and I create more saliva in my mouth to dilute it with. Goes down much easier that way. I actually keep him more towards the front of my mouth, as having him further back seems to allow each jet of cum to hit my gag reflex.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 12:11am
Hon, if you want to spit it out, then spit it out. He's lucky you let him finish in your mouth, many women won't do that.

There's nothing to be "scared" about, unless he has a disease or infection, and if he does, once it's in your mouth, it's too late anyway. Most women aren't bothered by the "taste", but by the consistency. Another poster mentioned, make sure you have saliva in your mouth to dilute it, and it shouldn't gag you......unless you're thinking about it so much you talk yourself into gagging. Also, gagging wouldn't cause you to throw up.

You can also let it kind of "dribble out around your hand, so there's very little left in your mouth. Once it's in your mouth, even if you spit it out, there IS some left in your mouth, and you're swallowing it.

Don't do anything you don't want to do. You aren't his slave, you're his partner, and youhave rights! But you haven't said that he's trying to force you to, so maybe he's perfectly happy with you spitting it out.

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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 10:52am
Well, gee, I'm sorry you feel that way. But this IS an opinion board and that means that we're free to give an opinion that may or may not agree with yours and sorry, I don't believe it's an insult or a personal affront to disagree. You can't please everyone though and there will be personality conflicts, as in real life.




Edited 8/4/2004 11:11 am ET ET by katmandoo2001

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