Swallowing

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Registered: 03-19-2004
Swallowing
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Fri, 06-18-2004 - 2:08pm
I know it varies for each man, but how important is swallowing or at least ejaculating in someone's mouth? I really dislike the smell and taste of semen, and will not allow a man to "finish" during oral sex. I either use oral sex as foreplay only, or finish the job with my hand. My boyfriend said that I am the only girl he has been with that won't do it, but he assured me that he is okay with the fact that I don't. I know that he wished I would though.
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Registered: 12-22-2003
Fri, 07-02-2004 - 1:40pm
Kelly,

I was fortunate enough last time that she tried it for the first time(swallowing). She said it wasn't that bad, but this is really more of a special treat for us. I never gave any thought about her fluids being offensive or gross, I just see it as a part of her, one that I also ejoy a lot!

Stephen

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Registered: 11-16-2003
Sun, 07-04-2004 - 12:42am

I also have no problem swallowing. I wish I would get the chance to do it more often. Although I do get to do oral on my SO every time we are together he perfers to finish with intercourse. He has only let me take him to completion with oral one time and that was when we were able to spend several hours together in one day and had already had sex once.


It was the first time any woman had done that for him and he thought it was incredible. He is also very complimentry about my oral skills. LOL. I don't do it because it's a great turn on in and of itself for me, but because his reaction and pleasure are a HUGE turn on for me. I enjoy giving him

Lisa

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 07-04-2004 - 11:37am
"But my DH's urologist and my gyno have both said that adding more pineapple or more fruit to the diet will do nothing to affect the taste of semen or lubrication and that water is much more beneficial."

Yep yep yep, I'm not disagreeing with that at all. However, THAT in itself is more for those with, as you called it, "a balanced healthy diet" that ALREADY consists of LOTS of vegetable and fruits, some meat and carbs and plenty of water.

I, however, am referring to those who actually DON'T keep a healthy balance. Oh my WORD Kat, believe NOT ME, but my dear, believe all those women out there who have reported and actually sworn (even right online here) by the difference they themselves notice between the men who are asparagus eaters or just beer and pizza guys those who do more fruit/water.

Also, regardless of what of experts say compared to another set, our best research is to go by what the actual people (or ladies) have reported themselves. I wouldn't know anything about this regarding experience, so I go by what I've read right here and on other boards. No problem with you or me saying that our own urologists/gynos claim something different, but I won't jump online and tell those ladies that their experiences--that they've already reported--were "a myth." Lol...not me, ma'am. ;)

Anyway, the pear/apple/pineapple trick is mostly beneficial for those who don't do fruit very often at all and not noticeable for those with already healthy diets. Again, I didn't get this by guessing, but by the online folks and the experts that have reported this. If interested, I'll email a couple of those sights to ya.

LOL!!...Mrs. says she doesn't mind at all when I overdose on the applesauce anyway. Yeehaw!

 

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Mon, 07-05-2004 - 3:12pm
i used to be anti-swallowing w/ my ex, but w/ my new guy the first time i went down on him i just went for it. i never told him that he was my first , hehe but now i swallow everytime. it was a bit scary at first haha i always thought i would gag and stuff, now wen i deep throat it slides down the throat a lot easier. down there tho its hard for me to breathe and my eyes water..haha. my BF is like omigod dont do this bc u cry, etc. i think its just my air intake i have to work on. he's like if its uncomfortable, and i feel like ure suffering, dont do it. i dont "suffer" ... i dont necessarily LOVE going downt here but i know it pleases him. he was like would u tell me if u were suffering neway? i was like nope... to me, its not like im down there forever, i can manage for 15minutes and such. usually i just finish him in my mouth if for some reason he has a hard time cumming during sex. but usually we finish w/ sex as well...but he still loves blow jobs so i try to fit them in once a visit (since we're in a LDR) plus he LOVES going down on me, so it's essential to give and take, and as much as i dont LOVE going down on him to be honest i miss it after a while hehe... but yeah give it a try, if it's not for u, i doubt it makes little difference to the guy!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 2:00am
Well, I believe in the "placebo effect" myself. IF you believe it, he will come...more sweetly. LOL!
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Tue, 07-06-2004 - 5:25pm
There was a poll taken on ivillage uk and it asked if different men taste differently. Almost 90% said yes ,that the taste from man to man is somewhat different.MOST of those women said it definately depends what they ate a couple hours ago.Ever smell strong amonia urine? ..Food affected the oder, just as women say it affects semen taste.I asked my DW if food affects the taste and she told me that if we eat Mexican tonight ,for get her swallowing..lol
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 5:52pm
Of course, people's semen, etc. will taste differently from one another! No question about it but that has less to do with diet and more to do with the hormone levels and chemical makeup of each person.

I've been with my DH for 28 years and he's always tasted the same, stronger in the morning, when his hormones are high, and very mild the rest of the time. And he says the only time I taste differently is right before my period. So, either we both are completely unaffected by our diets or some people are very affected by theirs. Just has not been our experience.

BTW, that ammonia smell of urine you mentioned is a result of insufficient water intake, not diet.


Edited 7/6/2004 6:00 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Registered: 07-06-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 10:20pm
I understand what you mean. My husband and I have this same issue. I've done it once or twice years ago when we were dating, but I think it's digusting. The smell and taste are awful. My husband even goes so far as to say just hold it in your mouth. You don't have to swallow.

I don't think I will ever be able to do it again!

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Wed, 07-07-2004 - 2:18pm
Kat , Im an athlete who drinks plenty of water..Try drinking just one killians beer and see if that doesnt effect your urine........lol
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Registered: 05-14-2004
Wed, 07-07-2004 - 5:00pm
Whew!! Let me tell you!! I totally get what you are saying. JT and I are extremely athletic, eat healthy 95% of the time, and drink tons of water. But every now and then we will got over to this guy's house and JT will take shot after shot after shot. (the guy mixing them has all the background/schooling to be a bartender but would rather just keep it as a hooby) After those nights, I give him a couple of days to get all that potent cum out of his body! Tried it once, will never do it again. For the ladies out there that swallow - DO NOT do it after a night of drinking. Boy does that burn!
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