Swallowing

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Swallowing
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Fri, 06-18-2004 - 2:08pm
I know it varies for each man, but how important is swallowing or at least ejaculating in someone's mouth? I really dislike the smell and taste of semen, and will not allow a man to "finish" during oral sex. I either use oral sex as foreplay only, or finish the job with my hand. My boyfriend said that I am the only girl he has been with that won't do it, but he assured me that he is okay with the fact that I don't. I know that he wished I would though.
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Wed, 07-07-2004 - 6:31pm
Been there, done that, humpdaddy and no change for either of us.
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Thu, 07-08-2004 - 12:27pm
Zukes! LOL!! I've read that one before too on other boards. Don't know what the toxins or chemicals are in that stuff compared to others. Never bothered to study it either, but I've read that before anyway.

Bottom line really is about the individuals. Different people's "stuff" will react differently from one another to different foods/drinks. No question about that. Some/certain foods are "more" reactive than others when it comes to the general public, but in no way can ANY of us say for everyone else that NO food or drink causes any differences, right everybody?

 

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Thu, 07-08-2004 - 2:41pm
para, I`ll agree with you..It`s all individual in the results people have to different things they consume. We KNOW it happens with us, and there are enough others that say it happens with them to know it does happen. It may not be like that for everyone though, like kat said. I KNOW if I drink Killians my urine is worse, and my DW says my cum is bitter.She says the same if I eat mexican food.(spicy)
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Thu, 07-08-2004 - 8:13pm
Big 10-roger on that. In fact, no matter how much extra water we drink to try masking the extra urine odors, Mrs. & I still react strongly to certain foods/drinks.

For her its usually onions, peppers and large glasses of juices (guessing her body doesn't do well with the acids in them, don't know). For me its always the mexican food and red wines.

Oh well, different reactions from different consumables for different bodies...simple. Many, if not most doctors just love to pick on the asparagus (sp?) a lot, but thats probably because its simply more common in being more noticeable. Who knows.

Swallowing issue is way too contraversial on other boards across the net. Nice to hear some peaceful responses on this board here for a change. Never really been an issue for her & me, so we never got around to actually 'discussing' it. I guess her constantly telling me "don't hold back" is as close as we've gotten, LOL!, but we've always (except once) finished with intercourse anyway.

Amazing to read across the net how some ladies have no physical NOR psychological issues with it while others appear offended by just the thought. Reading these boards really helps remind me of just how diverse we humans are. Tend to forget that after reading the usual "normal" type of responses out there, but the differences are sharp nonetheless.

 

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Registered: 07-09-2004
Fri, 07-09-2004 - 10:49pm
If you're not comfortable with swallowing, then don't do it... Guys will say anything to make you feel special...
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Fri, 07-16-2004 - 12:11pm
para, You are right about how diverse opinions are about different sexual activities. I was shocked the other day ,when a really close friend I`ve had since childhood confided in me that his wife of over 20 years has never given him a BJ. I was dumbfounded.
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Fri, 07-16-2004 - 3:32pm
HEY YOU!!!...LOL!...don't be TOO dumbfounded!

It actually took me quite a while to perform cunnilingus on the Mrs., so I'm kinda guilty of not being comfortable with certain things too...or at least I was, lol. I see nothing wrong with being comfortable and uncomfortable with different acts I guess.

I agree with you that it is surprising (particularly for THAT long), AAAAND I do know that you weren't implying that anything was wrong with that guys wife either. (just in case lurkers get the wrong idea, ay? lol)

 

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Fri, 07-16-2004 - 5:40pm
That's really not that unusual to hear. I know that my mother told me she had never done it either. And she regretted it.
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Sat, 07-17-2004 - 11:15am
None of our business of course, but why did she say she regretted it? She chose to not do it anyway, I'm guessing. What was she feeling about it that made her regret? I wonder if lurkers around felt that too.

To be honest, if it wasn't something I was interested in, then I think I myself would 'still' regret it if I lived my whole married life not doing something that Mrs. Para really enjoyed too. I love it when she's truly enjoying herself, even if I'm doing something I don't particularly like, I still love it when she enjoys herself so intensely anyway.

What caused regret though?

 

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Registered: 07-17-2004
Sat, 07-17-2004 - 12:57pm
what the hell is a DH? designated hitter??