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Swallowing
| Fri, 06-18-2004 - 2:08pm |
I know it varies for each man, but how important is swallowing or at least ejaculating in someone's mouth? I really dislike the smell and taste of semen, and will not allow a man to "finish" during oral sex. I either use oral sex as foreplay only, or finish the job with my hand. My boyfriend said that I am the only girl he has been with that won't do it, but he assured me that he is okay with the fact that I don't. I know that he wished I would though.

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Bottom line really is about the individuals. Different people's "stuff" will react differently from one another to different foods/drinks. No question about that. Some/certain foods are "more" reactive than others when it comes to the general public, but in no way can ANY of us say for everyone else that NO food or drink causes any differences, right everybody?
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For her its usually onions, peppers and large glasses of juices (guessing her body doesn't do well with the acids in them, don't know). For me its always the mexican food and red wines.
Oh well, different reactions from different consumables for different bodies...simple. Many, if not most doctors just love to pick on the asparagus (sp?) a lot, but thats probably because its simply more common in being more noticeable. Who knows.
Swallowing issue is way too contraversial on other boards across the net. Nice to hear some peaceful responses on this board here for a change. Never really been an issue for her & me, so we never got around to actually 'discussing' it. I guess her constantly telling me "don't hold back" is as close as we've gotten, LOL!, but we've always (except once) finished with intercourse anyway.
Amazing to read across the net how some ladies have no physical NOR psychological issues with it while others appear offended by just the thought. Reading these boards really helps remind me of just how diverse we humans are. Tend to forget that after reading the usual "normal" type of responses out there, but the differences are sharp nonetheless.
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It actually took me quite a while to perform cunnilingus on the Mrs., so I'm kinda guilty of not being comfortable with certain things too...or at least I was, lol. I see nothing wrong with being comfortable and uncomfortable with different acts I guess.
I agree with you that it is surprising (particularly for THAT long), AAAAND I do know that you weren't implying that anything was wrong with that guys wife either. (just in case lurkers get the wrong idea, ay? lol)
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To be honest, if it wasn't something I was interested in, then I think I myself would 'still' regret it if I lived my whole married life not doing something that Mrs. Para really enjoyed too. I love it when she's truly enjoying herself, even if I'm doing something I don't particularly like, I still love it when she enjoys herself so intensely anyway.
What caused regret though?
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