Swallowing

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Registered: 03-19-2004
Swallowing
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Fri, 06-18-2004 - 2:08pm
I know it varies for each man, but how important is swallowing or at least ejaculating in someone's mouth? I really dislike the smell and taste of semen, and will not allow a man to "finish" during oral sex. I either use oral sex as foreplay only, or finish the job with my hand. My boyfriend said that I am the only girl he has been with that won't do it, but he assured me that he is okay with the fact that I don't. I know that he wished I would though.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 07-18-2004 - 7:08pm

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 1:15am
I think she regretted not having the experience for herself and losing out at being more assertive sexually. They both had pretty strong opinions about certain things but she learned so much and opened up to new ideas, after his passing.
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Registered: 01-30-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 10:58am
If you don't like it, you don't like it. I've only had a few lovers but I've probably spent the equivalent of several days of my life with a dick in my mouth lol. Here's what I've figured out: if he hasn't cum in a few days or more, his sperm is going to be thick, yellow/grey and not only will there be a lot of it but it will taste and smell really strongly. If he's just cum within the last day or something like that, his sperm is going to be white/clear, there will be much less of it and it will taste much "fresher". It's much easier to deal with. Nothing as gross as having him deposit a huge sticky, funky load in your mouth ... it reminds me of an oyster, and I hate oysters. Anyhow, even if you don't swallow it, you can put on a great show ... between your face, his penis and your tongue, you can send him into heaven without actually swallowing a drop ... guess it hinges on whether you buy into the "it's good for your skin" theory. ;-)
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 07-20-2004 - 9:48am
Okay, I got it now, LOL!!

I waaaay misunderstood...me so bad...LOL!!! Our positive points of views on relationships sure seem more fun than pointing out the negatives of them all the time, ay?

Saddens me to realize that this world truly believes that the negatives are always so much more "realistic" than the positives. Thankfully there's still plenty o' relationships out there that prove otherwise.

And YES I just got your email. So totally kind of you.

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