taking control and pleasing my man

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2005
taking control and pleasing my man
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Thu, 01-19-2006 - 3:46pm

I was wondering if anyone had ideas for how I can kinda take control and really turn my boyfriend on before he even tries to get me off. It's not that our sex life has gotten routine or boring, but it almost always starts with him going down on me, then switching to sex. Believe me, I have NO complaints, but it seems like he always wants to get me off first and more than once, and I would love the opportunity to do this for him. I go down on him alot and we change postions too, but I want to focus on him and really make him go crazy like he likes to do with me. Any thoughts and suggestions are welcome!

(btw he is studying abroad next semester so these next 2 weeks or so are my last opportunities to leave a real lasting impression on how I love to please him before he leaves for 4 months)

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 01-19-2006 - 5:12pm
Just do it by changing your foreplay routine, you initiating, you start going down on him before he has a chance to do anything to you.

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