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| Mon, 12-06-2004 - 11:51am |
My boyfriend and I have come close to having sex, but I have not been ready. I am now ready to have sex, should I just come out and tell him this? Will it make him uncomfortable? Thanks!

Don't worry too much about him being uncomfortable. If you are going to have sex then it would be best if you two can talk comfortably about it. I've found that once you get over the initial embarrassment of talking about things that have always been awkward to talk about, then you can have good communication with your partner. After-all, if he's going to try to put a condom on and put his penis into you, it'd be good to be able to talk about it.
Bite the bullet and talk to him. It'll get easier the more you talk. Even if he says something shocking don't laugh or be disgusted. You'll find that when he realises that he can tell you embarrassing things without being laughed at or told that he is disgusting, he will tell you what he wants and you won't have to wonder about it or get worried whether or not you are doing the right thing.