Talking with friends

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Registered: 04-20-2007
Talking with friends
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Mon, 04-30-2007 - 2:58pm
We don't seem to mind sharing are sex lives on here with strangers but how many people share details of their sex lives with friends? Does your best friend know what kind of toys you have,the size of your husbands penis,the last time you had an orgasm,what kind of panties your wife wears,if your wife spits or swallows....things like that. I have shared a lot with my best friend but I havent told my wife that I have shared that information. I wonder what kind of details she shares with her friends. I know she shares some but theres kind of a silent agreement between us not to tell each other what we share with are friends. Its kind of fun to leave it up to our imaginations what her friends know about me and mine about her. What about the rest of you?
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 3:24pm

To some degree I share with a friend.

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 4:33pm
Well, I don't think it's fun to have intimate details devulged to anyone. I don't do it to him and I certainly hope that DH honors mine/our privacy. I would not have any problem asking his Dad, Mother, or very close friend for advice on any sexual issues that may be concerning him. However, I feel that to discuss/joke about what you do behind closed doors ( behind SO's back ) is childish and inconsiderate.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 04-30-2007 - 4:40pm

I have had conversations with various friends about my sex life. It just depends on the friend and what stage my sex life is in. I don't really get into exact specifics, but I do talk about what we like. Recently, DH and I had a conversation with another couple about sex -- that was very interesting. They are both similar in age to us, and both of us (as couples) are going through changes -- that have improved our sex lives.

It's amazing how far people will get into sexual conversations once they feel comfortable with you. I don't necessarily tell my DH everything I talk with my friends about, and visa versa.



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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 05-01-2007 - 9:43am

No one needs to know the intimate details of my sex life besides my partner and me. I don't discuss it in detail with even my closest friends. They don't want or need to hear it, nor do I want to know their details. We may discuss it in "general".....yes, it's good, or yes, I enjoy it.

Posting here is another story. This is an anonymous board. For all I know my neighbors might be regulars here....but so what. They don't know it's me, I don't know it's them. If talking about my sex life will help someone here.....I have no problem with that.

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 05-01-2007 - 1:58pm
I'm not a lesbian, and I get along just fine with my neighbors! I even like the Donald.