Taoism

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Fri, 05-14-2004 - 3:19pm
O.K. This one is kind of directed at you TaoistNovice.

What is Taoism??? Define it if you will. I have heard the term used several times, and they all used it to describe different things. I do not recall most of them, but I would like to hear how you define it. If you don't mind sharing this info that is. I am just curious as I have studied many religions, and since taoism ends in ism, I would only assume it is some form of belief system. Thanks for any info you are willing to share. I am greatly intregued.

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Registered: 08-14-2003
In reply to: jeephead
Sun, 05-16-2004 - 8:13pm
Taoist,

Your last post said ....

<< If you control your ejaculation and orgasm without ejaculating , not only can you have multiple orgasms during one session, you can be capable of making love again in a few hours. >>



I'm convinced...how does one begin?

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Registered: 12-29-2003
In reply to: jeephead
Mon, 05-17-2004 - 2:54pm
See my post #8 on this thread for the three books which are my primary sources. The "Multi-Orgasmic" ones in particular give detailed instructions but are a bit complex. I don't do all of the energy cycling stuff they talk about. You can find any of these books at Borders or Barnes & Nobles. If you want to try it let me know how it goes, I might be able to supply some useful advice.

taoist
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Registered: 04-08-2004
In reply to: jeephead
Mon, 05-17-2004 - 2:59pm
Sounds good to me too. I think I will give it a honest effort. As the master Yoda once said "Do, or Do not. There is no try."
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Registered: 12-29-2003
In reply to: jeephead
Mon, 05-17-2004 - 10:07pm
There is some resemblance between "the Force" and "the Tao", but of course, that was science fiction, this is real life.

Keep in touch, guys. For some reason I don't have e-mail messaging through ivillage, but I can try to e-mail you. You will probably need some advice as the "Multi-orgasmic" books are pretty complicated. Ejaculation control is not easy to learn, and even after you think you have it down, you can still have problems. I don't know your ages, but they say it's easier for older men. I'm 52, and I just learned less than a year ago.

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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: jeephead
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 12:22am
Ejaculation is not necessary for a man!?? HUH??? I've NEVER heard this one before. Holy cow! My hubby (and even I) would be terribly pent up and frustrated if he didn't or couldn't. (I mean, yeah, the occasional times, but to practice it!?) I don't get that at all. But to each his own. We think climaxing is very good for one's health - female or male! Puts a glow on your face and contentment all throughout your body.

I love walking around after my hubby leaves for work and he's climaxed - either in me or on me. I feel wonderful and carefree. Like walking on clouds, you know? It sets the entire day for both of us. He goes into work with a smile (think Cheschire cat grin!) and I feel very relaxed and ready to start my day. When we don't have sex in the morning (which is rare since we usually do something), I feel fine too, but not like quite fulfilled as when we've been together.

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In reply to: jeephead
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 2:02am
I think you misunderstood. He *does* climax, but he doesn't ejaculate. Meaning he has an orgasm, but doesn't ejaculate semen when he does.

Leticia

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In reply to: jeephead
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 6:33am
That's right, Leticia. Men can orgasm repeatedly without ejaculating. At 52, I'm capable of making love twice a day or more and having up to 3 orgasms (sometimes more) each time. If I ejaculated each time, I'd be lucky to manage it once a day. I can get up from a lovemaking session and go out and walk our Labs briskly for 30 mins (2 miles). The Taoists believe this kind of frequent sexual activity is the path to good health and vitality and they have a tradition going back over two thousand years to back them up.

taoist
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In reply to: jeephead
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 8:22am

Taoist, you can get ivillage e-mail messaging going to this site.

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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: jeephead
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 12:28pm
Hmmm ... it's all very interesting. I've never been with anyone who climaxes WITHOUT ejaculating though or even talked about it. I wouldn't think that most men would have the patience to teach themselves that method, so that is interesting.

But you know, R is 55 and he has climaxed two and three times over a day. The second and third time take longer, but he does. Not every day, mind you, or every week, but usually during "our" day together, he is once in the morning, once in late afternoon and then again late at night. He doesn't go out running with the dogs afterwards though! haha. And usually after a day of climaxing so much, he will be tuckered out for the next two days or so. (Which is good for me so I can recover myself!) By day three though, he's usually back to his normal self.




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Registered: 12-29-2003
In reply to: jeephead
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 2:31pm
I've talked to men (on these boards) who can (or could) ejaculate several times in an hour, though the older ones say this ability diminished rapidly after 35. Even when I was in my 20s , I was good for once a day. If I did more the second or third were more work than pleasure. With ejaculation control I can orgasm wonderfully 1-3 times each session, and make love 2-3 times a day, without exhausting myself. In fact, I feel energized just like my DF (47) who has many more orgasms than I do. This also has distinct benefits for her, as I am able to have intercourse easily for 20-30 minutes, which helps her with her orgasms.

taoist

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