The Tease!

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Registered: 02-28-2006
The Tease!
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Mon, 07-07-2008 - 7:43pm
I'm setting up a week long tease for DW starting tonight (Monday), that I have high hopes will yield explosive results. The kernel of the idea is from Laura Corn's book, although I'm turning up the kink factor just a little — because I can, and because it affords me the chance to be a little Dom, which we all know I'm up for. DW and the kids will be away for almost 3 weeks starting a week from today, so I'm hoping this will send her off with some wonderful memories of our last weekend together in July.

I've just taken one of our dining room chairs, carried it up to our bedroom and set it against the wall, without saying a word to her as to what I was doing or why. Unbeknownst to her, I've also made dinner reservations for the two of us for Saturday evening, and arranged with DS for him to babysit his sister that night.



More details to follow as the week wears on and the tease unfolds further.


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Registered: 01-19-2006
In reply to: bostonsteve
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 9:39am
I'd go right off the road if my memory went there during a car trip, Misty. lol

I'm wondering how Steve is going to make it having that chair to look at during the next two weeks on his own. I wonder if the chair stays in the bedroom, just so his mind can go there?

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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: bostonsteve
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 9:57am
LOL... I just brought the chair back down to the dining room. My (HL) mind doesn't usually have any difficulty going there all of its own accord. LOL


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Registered: 01-19-2006
In reply to: bostonsteve
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 10:08am
LOL! That's not a surprise, then. Maybe for the HL the opposite is needed, hide things like the chair, that have highly erotic associations, to downplay the distraction factor. lolol

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Registered: 02-17-2008
In reply to: bostonsteve
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 11:58am
Glad you had a great time with DW last night, Steve!!!!

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Registered: 03-14-2008
In reply to: bostonsteve
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 12:15pm
omg Steve that sounds like such a hot time.....especially the "round 2", I haven't been blessed with a "round 2"...in years....

cl-sandif2008
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Registered: 03-14-2008
In reply to: bostonsteve
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 12:22pm
Oh I know exactly what you mean Steve...I haven't read this book, but I know the last few months I have tried to incorporate our sexual relationship into our everyday lives...with just looks, touches, or spoken words here and there....however, for me, my DH is just so paranoid about anyone seeing, or hearing anything...with the kids and all...he is always shushing me, or saying don't do that one of the kids might see you...it has been a bit frustrating...alas it does have to be a 2 way street, and of late it has not been here....of course back in the day when his libido was higher he had absolutely no problem grabbing me or saying things to me throughout the day....so of course, I can surmise that it is not his paranoia at work here, but rather his way of saying, i am not in the mood....omg..I hate one way streets....oh well at least I tried...So I think it is great that your DW was positive with your whole "Tease" project, and welcomed it, and played along....very nice idea you had there...

cl-sandif2008
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Registered: 03-14-2008
In reply to: bostonsteve
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 12:25pm
Hey there Kat, haven't talked to you in a bit....hope you are well....I am off for a bike ride soon, will be back later though...hope we get to chat a bit....have a great afternoon...

cl-sandif2008
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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: bostonsteve
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 12:30pm
Sandi, DW gave up on trying to hide things from our teenager a couple of years ago when he started being insistent about asking why DW and I had to go up to our bedroom to "watch TV" on a Saturday night. After he ignored several pointed hints to drop the subject, she finally looked at him and said, "we're going upstairs to fool around — are you happy now?" These days he comes downstairs when we head up, so that he doesn't have to listen to us.


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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: bostonsteve
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 12:30pm
Thanks Kat !!


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Registered: 03-14-2008
In reply to: bostonsteve
Sun, 07-13-2008 - 1:17pm
LMAO....see now that is exactly what i would do....I said to DH, so who cares, of course they know we are going to fool around...it is healthy for them to know this....and I am sick of trying to tip toe around...now of course I am not suggesting to use no descretion, however, when they go out on a Friday or Saturday, and i ask them, when do you think you will be home, and get the I don't know why??
cl-sandif2008

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