Teasing or What?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2005
Teasing or What?
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Sat, 06-04-2005 - 11:25pm
Hello everyone,I'm a new member to Iviggage an I LOVE it.
I recently had a encounter with a guy.We had known each other for 3+ years
but we just decided to go one step further.He went down on me an it was the best I had ever had,I had two orgasms back to back an he kept going for like a hour an a half.He had even showed me my G-spot which I never knew worked..lol.I was very excited at this point
then I went down on him,an after I wanted to take the next step an have sex but he didnt want to.My question is Do you think he was teasing me? Or what? I felt like a lesbian or something it was so surreal I wanted the whole package not a piece.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-27-2004
Sat, 06-04-2005 - 11:38pm

You need to ask him why he stopped. He's the only one who knows the answer to that. Surely if you've known him for 3+ years, and you can be intimate with him, you can ask him that simple question.

Receiving oral sex makes you feel like a lesbian? I'm just not sure where you're coming from. You need to talk to this guy and find out if you're both on the same page. It sounds like you're not.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2005
Sat, 06-04-2005 - 11:42pm
I'm not saying it makes me feel like a lesbian but he did that for almost two hours I was satisfied for that moment but when he stopped.I was not fulfilled.I asked him an he said I was too tight for him an he would cum too quick.An I explained to that I wouldnt care but I think he would be embarrsed
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2005
Sun, 06-05-2005 - 1:02am
There are men out there who do not like intercourse, and they can be spectacular at oral and that's all they want in return. And yes, it can leave one feeling very 'unfullfilled' in more ways than one.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 06-05-2005 - 6:28pm

I think I can see how the possibility could be there, but Green is right in that you really should be able to communicate with him about it, especially after knowing each other for so long.

Keep in mind too that no matter how well you guys do with adequate protection, some men and some women will STILL feel unsure about how safe it is in regards to pregnancy and what not. Talk to him, thats better than our own guesses on it.

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2005
Sun, 06-05-2005 - 11:50pm
I agree.Thank you so much for your input
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2005
Sun, 06-05-2005 - 11:54pm
Yes,that could be it also, but we had protection.I never have sex without it.Thank you so much for your comments you gave me something to think about.