Teasing - Unpleasant?
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| Fri, 11-10-2006 - 7:24am |
When giving my BF oral sometimes I bring him to the brink of orgasm then stop and do something else until he's calmed down a bit then start again.. I do this a few times until he can't stand it any more and I let him come. I always find he comes harder and for longer when I do this so I thought it must be better for him? (as well as giving me more play time!) but the other night afterwards he commented "You're going to have to stop the teasing thing" I don't know if he was being serious or just meaning as in it's too much? I didn't question him about it at the time and now the moment has passed really.
Can teasing (during oral or sex) be uncomfortable or unpleasant for men??
Personally I love being held on the brink of orgasm for as long as possible but I never thought he might not actually like it?

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Hi,
Sorry in advance if this is TMI I'll try and word it tactfully!
When I give oral I try and mix it up a bit so vary speed, depth etc. but BF sometimes stops me after about half a minute because he says he is going to come and does not want to come so soon so I have to 'dull' it down a bit! But I like to take breaks where I lick and play with his balls, concentrate on just the head etc. then resume 'standard oral' before stopping to play a bit more when he is on the brink. I do that usually only 2 or 3 times before I up the pace and play with his balls etc. and let him come which he usually does pretty quickly! I don't do it all the time as that could get a bit tiring I know, usually about 50/50 if he is tired or we are short on time I just let him finish straight away within a few minutes.
I will probably ask him about it at some point just curious really on other mens experience of this.. is teasing pleasurable? Is your orgasm better if it's prolonged? Or is it just annoying or actually 'too much'?
Edited 11/10/2006 10:01 am ET by afbe
I tend to vary a bit from time to time, so he doesn't know what is coming! LOL
That said, the other night was all about starting and stopping - actually for several hours via text and telephone before he got home. Needless to say it was explosive when it finally happened - for both of us!
I suppose if you keep at it REALLY long those nerve endings get saturated and it's not fun anymore, sort of like just after an orgasm; most folks need a little time to regroup before they want to be touched again. If you move your attention elsewhere then come back after a bit it's OK.
For my part some of the most intense experiences I've had have been excruciatingly long teases followed by an sudden finishing-off move, but those have been few and far between.