techniques to get to orgasm during sex??
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techniques to get to orgasm during sex??
| Sat, 06-26-2004 - 7:14pm |
Hi, first time posting. I've been in a relationship for a while (over a year), but we don't get to see eachother very often - so we don't get to have sex very often. when we do have sex, its good, but i have only had orgasms a few times, and only if i am stimulating my own clitoris while doing doogie-style. my boyfriend has done everything he can think of to make sex more interesting for me but is frustrated that i am unable to suggest anything to help make the experience better for me. i do masturbate some but when he does manual or oral things to my clitoris area i really enjoy it - though don't orgasm. i'm not sure if i'm afraid to have an orgasm which i'm sure is an obstacle in having an orgasm, but i also want some tips on techniques to incorporate clitoral stimulation into sex. any ideas so that i can orgasm during sex????
thanks

In order to have an orgasm with any kind of stimulation, you have to relax and just let it happen, whether it's oral, manual or intercourse.
Obtaining an orgasm is your responsibility. Orgasms are definitely nothing to be afraid of or reluctant to let it happen. If you're masturbating to orgasm, you're getting there.
Orgasms with a skillful partner can be mind-blowing....!!! Have you tried being on top...?? Both facing your partner and facing his feet...?? Oral stimulation with your partner inserting a finger or two, a vibrator with oral stimulation. The possibilities are almost endless.
Amother almost sure-fire way is to have him assume the traditional missionary position. Rather than him laying directly on top of you, have him hold himself up and slightly away from you. Then, you take his penis and you rub it on/in your clit area. Play with it, guiding it and controlling pressure, speed, location to suit your own needs. Just that action will likely bring you both to orgasm. Try it. You may have to practice, but it's really, truly worth it...!!! Practice and communication should make it all come together