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teen girls don't like sex?
| Sun, 09-12-2004 - 10:55pm |
I was watching Dr Phil today, and he had a woman on who worked as a counsellor in a teen crisis centre.
| Sun, 09-12-2004 - 10:55pm |
I was watching Dr Phil today, and he had a woman on who worked as a counsellor in a teen crisis centre.
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Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
I was pretty agressive as a high school, college girl. I enjoyed it, I enjoyed the way it made me feel. Right or wrong, I did get a real thrill from random hook ups with just friends or simply guys I wanted to screw.
Sara
We talked about this at work once, how young women used to marry at a young age and so were sexually active young, but there is a difference today. They weren't giving BJs to every guy, they weren't sexually active with a guy they were casually dating, they didn't have a baby with every guy they went out with. They met someone, married, (usually stayed married) and raised their families responsibly. Big difference from a lot of young girls today.
Because I can tell you, from having spent a lot of time on the maternity ward at the hospital where I worked, that although they may be sexually active, they're still pretty shy about sex and their bodies and natural functions. Even those that are in labor are still pretty inhibited about sexuality. The nurses will back me up on this one. Many of them don't want to use a diaphragm because they 'don't wanna stick their fingers up THERE', they don't know the correct names for their reproductive parts, they're funny about a male doctor, they don't know how to properly prevent pregnancy and they're embarrassed about nudity. It's a pseudo-sophistication.
I don't see this as a problem. Even if it isn't factually accurate, I'm okay with the thought that teenage girls arent' enjoying sex. I sure don't want MY dd to enjoy sex as a teenager cause I don't want her having it as a teenager at all!
It is the thought that teenage girls aren't enjoying sex that keeps them from not being properly informed some times. I have a baby girl too, but as scary as it is we need to face the truth, and teach them for health
who_reallyknows
My mother was very comfortable about her sexuality, so she was open in teaching us "the birds and the bees" (going old school here!), along with the good and bad of it (i.e, how good it felt, getting pregnant at an early age,
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sex as a teen was alright it wasnt as good as it is now that i am older.
i was never the hyped up lets just have sex to have sex type. i actually took it as a serious affair.
i mean in a teenager's mentality it was ok but now as an adult its way better with my husband.
i would rather make love than have sex anyday.
~april~
Maybe I'm in the minority or maybe some girls aren't being truthful. After all, it's 'cool' to say you like sex. No one wants to admit that they don't really, especially at that age.
Now...if you WANT to raise that age as an issue to agree or disagree on, thats up to you. I'm not inclined to categorize that age group based upon my experiences with mentor groups for troubled youth and sexually active teens and even rape victims, NOR will I do so based upon your own experiences.
Many teens, regardless the age, simply do enjoy sex, and many simply don't but do it for the attention anyway. I will agree to that part of course, but I will NOT project my thinking into categorizing this age group or that age group as to what they like and/or . I spend my time on it, but would rather not.
No matter what you and I have experienced through our volunteer work or actual jobs involving teen sexuality, that will never "erase" the fact that there ARE teen girls here and there from ALL sexually active ages who actually DO ditch partners that aren't pleasurable enough for others that actually ARE, and they even "cheat" as well.
When it comes to them doing it just for the attention, THAT can be said about even OUR OWN age group when ya think about it, LOL, because even many sexually active teen girls out there DO enjoy masturbation anyway, so where's the "attention" factor in that???
Hope that makes a little more sense. Take care.
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