Tell me about this...

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Registered: 03-29-2005
Tell me about this...
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Mon, 06-20-2005 - 1:46pm

I've never had a guy come in me without a condom. there was a cpl times years ago when my bf and i were stupid doing the withdrawl method...man am i lucky...but he never fully came in me.

~Kristina
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Registered: 08-18-2004
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 2:13pm

Alright, from my experience, this is what i have learned:

does it come out right away, so you could have sex then use the rest room to clean up, or does it take a while?
I usually have to get a towel or go into the bathroom afterwards to clean up, but after about 10 minutes it will come out. It comes out faster if you are standing, obviously. The first time it ever happened to me, i didn't know he had came inside of me, so i stood up and all of a sudden i felt something dripping down my leg and i was really grossed out and was freakin out.. then i realized the jerk came in me and didn't tell me he did. With a lot of girls it's different though and depending on the guy. Sometimes it comes out really fast, sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes a lot comes out, sometimes not.

how much comes back out? the same amount as went in?
It's definetly enough to make ur undies wet.. so it's kinda gross... or if u are naked, then it feels pretty weird.. in my opinion at least. Its not really "a lot" though, because guys don't really cum that much anyway.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 2:17pm

A man only ejaculates about 2 teaspoons so it's not like it's gushing out.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 2:27pm

Kristina, we're only talking about a teaspoon or so of semen, so it's not a huge amount of liquid to clean up. The semen itself almost looks like skim milk, only slightly thicker in consistency.

And yes, it does leak out after intercourse, but normally, a couple of tissues will soak things up nicely after a few minutes. So, rather than jump up and run to the bathroom, I usually grab a couple of tissues from the nightstand and place them over my vagina to soak up the drips. It's just a usual routine for us now. But you can handle the cleanup anyway you choose.

Sometimes, if I have to go somewhere soon after intercourse, I'll even pop in a tampon to soak it up or use a mini-pad. Sex is messy though and that's part of the fun.

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Registered: 03-29-2005
Mon, 06-20-2005 - 2:50pm

Thanks for everyone's replies.

~Kristina
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Mon, 06-20-2005 - 4:36pm
I rather like it when he cums because it increases the lubrication and that always improves sex for me. I don't mind the sensation of the stuff dribbling out either, I guess it tells me that he has enjoyed himself :-) Elaine