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| Sat, 01-07-2006 - 3:55pm |
thanks for the advise. ed & i are taking things very slowly. he is a gentleman & wouldn't do things any other way. his previous relationship was marriage, they were married for 30 yrs when she passed away. ed is 25 yrs older than i am so the era he was brought up in is very different than that of now days or even the era that i grew up in. over the holidays ed bought me a ring & told me that he is waiting for the right time for us to make love, but he does love me & only wants the best for me. there have been times where he has "slowed" me down because he doesn't agree that it was the right time for us to make love. him having oldfashioned values is not the easiest thing but if we are meant to be together it will work. i am posisitve that he does not have any other woman that he is seeing because it is not his style to have more than one woman at a time.

I'm totally confused! In your original post, you said his last "relationship" lasted over 15 years. Now, it's a marriage that lasted 30 years?
You also said that you see each other every day, you "bump" into each other. What kind of "relationship" is that? He bought you a ring? Unless it's an engagement ring, it's just a piece of jewelry, nothing more.
You also said in your original post that every time you talk to him he brings up sex. NOW you're saying he's old fashioned, and he's waiting for the "right time to make love".
If he was married 30 years, that makes him at least 50, if not more. If he's 25 years older than you, that's a BIG age difference.....and he's way too old for someone in their twenties! You two have nothing in common, including your views on sexuality.
You need to think long and hard about this "relationship".
Could you please clear up the many