Is there any connection?
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Is there any connection?
| Thu, 05-04-2006 - 5:13pm |
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and it has been wonderful. We were both very conservative and waited a good 6 months before doing any sexual activity. In the beginning, we had certain places we would go so it would be private and where I could totally let go. We both felt very uncomfortable at his house or at my house. In these certain places, I would make all the noises I wanted however loud I wanted. It was great, and I ejaculated EVERYWHERE. Now, we get intimate at his house and I hardly ejactulate at all, even at all. The only times are after I have something to drink (alcoholic). It's depressing. I don't know why this is happening. It still feels amazing, I just can't get off. I can only guess that it's because I'm having to keep quiet or at least not really be able to completely let myself go. Can anyone help me out?

Not sure how anyone can help other than by offering you a private place to have sex with your BF? I think a lack of privacy would affect MOST people to some degree.
So, yes, there's bound to be a connection. I can't say as I blame you for not being totally at ease if you're afraid of being walked in on or overheard in the middle of sex! Unless one is completely exhibitionistic in nature, that's not something too many women would enjoy.
I think what you're experiencing is exactly what you said yourself....you're too inhibited by the circumstances to fully let go and enjoy sex. But, why can't you just continue using those private places you used to go to?
thanks everyone, yall were very helpful. actually we do have the tv on and the radio on, but i can be very loud. its just not safe. lol. and the reason why we dont really go anywhere is because we are too lazy and it has just grown on us to be at home. anyways, thanks again...
ps... thanks for the input about the 'dating girls' thing... but i like my man way too much. hehe.