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Thinking about others
| Mon, 03-19-2007 - 1:22am |
I ask my wife if she ever thinks of other people and who and she says she only thinks of me. She knows I fantsize about other people. SHe knows I wont get upset, in fact it would turn me on. Are women that different than men? DO you think its possible never to fantasize about someone else? I think she does but for some reason wont tell. What about you?
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| Mon, 03-19-2007 - 2:20am |
I don't fantasize about anyone but my partner. Some people don't fantasize at all, and some who DO, prefer to keep it their own private fantasy. If she says no......then accept that.
| Mon, 03-19-2007 - 9:02am |
Does she know that it would turn you on for her to fantasize about others? I think most people fantasize, but many are reluctant to share their fantasies. It's really her personal choice, but she may start to share with you (or start to fantasize) if she knows that it will arouse you. Are you interested in them as a method of role play, or learning ways to enhance your relationship? If you are looking to fulfill her fantasies, perhaps you already have, or perhaps she is just not ready for her fantasy to become a reality.
| Mon, 03-19-2007 - 5:13pm |
I fantasize all the time, but only about my DH. My fantasies are very tame compared to his and never envolve anything that we don't already do/enjoy. They mainly consist of being alone together in exotic, tropical, luxurious, extravagant settings. I know that DH's fantasies involve other women and participating in the darker and more sinister sexual acts ( I don't really want to know the specifics of what he fantasizes about as long as he keeps them in the fantasy realm). We've just kind of learned over the years that sharing fantasies are overated, at least for us, and it seems to hold it's charm better if kept to ones self.
| Mon, 03-19-2007 - 10:07pm |
I think Fantasizing is ok, certainly nothing wrong in it. I do fantasize about others, and I also about my SO as well. For me it adds to the fun and makes it more enjoyable. If she prefers not to tell you, then I would just let it go., you can still enjoy your own and still get turned on.
| Mon, 03-19-2007 - 11:31pm |
i can't do it either. i am all too aware of who i am with.
| Tue, 03-20-2007 - 6:13am |
We fantasize together while watching group sex DVD'S. When she is using a dildo, we fantasize that she is having IC with someone else. She fantasizes that I am having iC with someone on the DVD. I ask her how she would like to have a real big penis like on the DVD. Really erotic.

