Thinking about sex alot

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Registered: 05-07-2007
Thinking about sex alot
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Fri, 05-11-2007 - 10:28am
My dw and I have been married for 9 years. we have sex about 4 times a week and have an excellent relationship all together. I thing about having sex with her all day long every day is that normal? I get more pleasure giving her oral stimulation than me recieving because it really turns me on. Maybe we need to make love more or I am just crazy? I constantly thing of new things to do differently to please her. Iam sure you can tell I am not selfish.
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Fri, 05-11-2007 - 10:41am

It doesn't sound like your abnormal or crazy.

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Fri, 05-11-2007 - 10:58am
I know we have been together for 9 years, she saids that Iam horny all the time in which is true. I am 36 years old and Iam more horny now than I ever have been all my life. I thought the older men get the testosterone decreases as well as the male sex drive by studies? That is not the situation here.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 11:10am

As Tish said, as long as your thoughts of sex do not interfere with your ability to live a healthy and productive life, then it's normal for you. Sex drive can be affected by your thoughts, your hormone levels and outside forces such as stress.

Each person is different, so even if studies show that testosterone decreases with age in the average male, there are men on either side of the average too.

Do you or your wife feel there is a problem with the amount of time you think about sex?



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Fri, 05-11-2007 - 11:33am

Dh is 51, we've been

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Fri, 05-11-2007 - 12:22pm
No we don't have a problem thinking about sex during the day, she just states that I am more frisky all the time now compared to the years that we have been together. Then again we do exercise alot and eat healthy. It's just when I make a move on her after a few day's in a row of making love she saids "You horny again, we just did it yesterday". She said her sexual needs are not even close to mine.
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Registered: 10-28-2006
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 2:50pm

Hey you sound like my DH before he started this stressful
job he use to be the same way. Now when he gets home he is
so tired! I can't blame him. But I don't think there's any thing
wrong with you! I loved it when DH was really frisky, in fact I was
just thinking about that today! I hope the stress level will
go down and I can have my old DH back! I miss him!!!

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