thinking of sex?!

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Registered: 01-25-2008
thinking of sex?!
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Thu, 02-21-2008 - 11:33am

hi there


could you please tell me girls - are you thinking of sex a lot?! well I do, when I talked to my girlfriends about it they all say that they don't - or do they, but are only to shy to admit it?! well sex takes up a large part of my life and I do have a very healthy sexual life now I'm with my new bf - these days sex occurs on daily basis - but I also think of it so much - is this normal? are any of you experiencing this as well please let me posted


best wishes


Belladonna:]


p.s. i must admit that i'm not that young - 43 to be precised!

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Thu, 02-21-2008 - 12:19pm

You're thinking of sex because you're in a new relationship that includes lots of sex, as opposed to your marriage that didn't include lots of sex.

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Registered: 01-25-2008
Thu, 02-21-2008 - 2:37pm

hi sakura


thank you so much for

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Registered: 05-04-2007
Thu, 02-21-2008 - 2:54pm

I think about it a lot during the day. Even without these boards. It's just a topic I like.


I hear sex in regular work-type conversation, just because I have a dirty sense of humor. "Put it in my box"

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Registered: 01-25-2008
Thu, 02-21-2008 - 3:02pm
thanks tulips - you made me smile xx
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 02-21-2008 - 3:37pm

Belladonna,

You're going to find several women here who have felt their libidos increased and their sexual interests took on a new form. While there are some younger and others older, there's a majority of us in our 40s that have experienced a sudden surge.

The "Sexual Peaks" folder was born in a large part because there were so may of us here. I think it's driven by hormones. Typically, as a woman hits the beginning of menopause, she looses interest in sex .... seems some of us defy that rule :-)

It's great that you have a new guy that you are enjoying sharing this with. I've been married for nearly 17 years. We have both very much enjoyed this new surge of mine -- it's like falling in love all over again!



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Registered: 08-09-2007
Thu, 02-21-2008 - 4:07pm
Yes for this diva! I sure do! Day and night. Even when I'm sleep. Lol....My mind is very filthy and dirty. I'm 31 and it's been like this as long as I can remember. Sex sex sex and more sex is what I want 24/7! ;)

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Registered: 04-11-2006
Thu, 02-21-2008 - 6:25pm
lately, I think about it several times every day. Some days it seems like all day until i get it from DH. This is not normal for me though. This is new for me as well. And I'm 26 and have been married for 5 years and have 2 kids. I dont' know why the new found interest or 'obsession' (at times) for me either.

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Registered: 12-25-2006
Thu, 02-21-2008 - 10:07pm

I have my ups and downs...I have gone months hardly thinking of sex at all, and then sometimes I'll think about it every day for months.

Carrie

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Thu, 02-21-2008 - 11:04pm

I agree Misty. I recall my early discussions on this topic last year. A year has gone by and my interest has only increased.


We do defy the thinking that menopause, or it's onset, diminishes a woman's sexual drive.


I am a 49 year old woman with the drive of a 17yo boy sometimes.


I am reveling in it.


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Registered: 03-13-2008
Thu, 03-13-2008 - 2:29pm
Hey i'm 44 and think about it ALL the time, i even starting masturbating more and more, and i'm satisfied with my sex life with my husband, i just can't get enough, i don't know what it is either!!

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