For those who love porn....question.....
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For those who love porn....question.....
| Thu, 07-08-2004 - 10:32am |
Hi..if REALLY love watching porn, and do so often...
Say for about 2-3 weeks you were not exposed to porn at all. No internet, magazines, video, etc. Would your sex drive diminish? Would you still want sex as much? Would you want more sex? Does porn enhance or take away from the sex that you have with your partner?
VERY VERY curious. Doing sort of an experiment here...
Please be honest
Thanks!

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>>Would your sex drive diminish?<<
No. Probably it would increase. I usually use porn to masturbate to. Without the porn it takes longer for me to reach orgasm. Therefore I wouldn't masturbate as often. I would walk around feeling hornier.
>>Would you still want sex as much? Would you want more sex?<<
See above. Would probably want sex more because I wasn't masturbating as much. I must say that both me and my partner are happy with the freqency of sex and neither of us feel that my masturbating negatively impacts on our sex life.
>>Does porn enhance or take away from the sex <<
If anything, I would say that it enhances somewhat. It's a useful tool occasionally that can jump start our arousal. But we don't use it often.
It helps to provide a useful outlet for my libido if my partner isn't in the same mood. It gets me thinking about sex in general and provides some ideas and thoughts for when I'm with my partner.
If you have a particular person in mind, then your best bet would be to ASK that person how they feel it would affect them. It depends on why they look at porn, if they just enjoy it, or if they're addicted to it.
westridge: No. Probably it would increase. I usually use porn to masturbate to. Without the porn it takes longer for me to reach orgasm. Therefore I wouldn't masturbate as often. I would walk around feeling hornier.
do you mean to say that if you don't look at porn while masturbating you cannot orgasm? do you ever visualize your so(if you have one)?
>>Does porn enhance or take away from the sex <<
westridge: If anything, I would say that it enhances somewhat. It's a useful tool occasionally that can jump start our arousal. But we don't use it often.
It helps to provide a useful outlet for my libido if my partner isn't in the same mood. It gets me thinking about sex in general and provides some ideas and thoughts for when I'm with my partner.
do you not think about sex and ideas and thoughts of for your partner if porn wasn't viewed?
Is there a link online, or a study name that you can point me to?
Leticia
Hugs to you!
Leticia
>>>>westridge: No. Probably it would increase. I usually use porn to masturbate to. Without the porn it takes longer for me to reach orgasm. Therefore I wouldn't masturbate as often. I would walk around feeling hornier.
do you mean to say that if you don't look at porn while masturbating you cannot orgasm?<<<<<
No. I can orgasm quite easily and happily without porn. I use porn for EXTRA stimulation.
Without porn I am using my hand and my brain to stimulate myself. With porn I am using my hand, my brain and my eyes (and ears if it's a movie)to stimulate myself. Extra stimulation equals a faster orgasm.
>>>>>>do you ever visualize your so(if you have one)? <<<<<<<
Yes. Frequently. Even when using porn. I can't speak for any other guys but when I do use porn there is some fantasy in there where I can see the image presented by the porn and I somehow fit my partner partially or completely into the same fantasy as well. Hard to explain. I suppose that I am imagining my partner doing/receiving the things that I see in the porn.
>>>>>>>do you not think about sex and ideas and thoughts of for your partner if porn wasn't viewed?<<<<<
Of course I do! Just because porn can provide some ideas and fire my imagination doesn't mean that it is the ONLY thing that does. I have a healthy imagination without porn and the majority of my ideas and thoughts about sex have nothing to do with porn.
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