For those who prefer size, why?

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For those who prefer size, why?
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Thu, 06-02-2005 - 2:51pm
For those women who prefer large male members, why, or what, specifically makes them more enjoyable? Yes, size has been discussed ad nauseaum, but I was wondering what different people find attractive about large members (not the biggest you've had, or why samller ones are bad).

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Thu, 06-02-2005 - 3:42pm

I think it's just a matter of feeling filled up. My current lover's is like 2% bigger than I can comfortably accommodate and it is a VERY intense feelin. Unforgettable. I am not sure what the anatomy is in there, but it feels like his head slips into an inner chamber (and he says he definitely feels it too) that no other guy has reached before, and pushes extremely firmly on the back wall, and both those sensations drive me crazy!!!

The only downside to his being large is oral -- that is what he really likes and while I can handle it it takes a lot of effort and definitely is not elegant and ladylike.

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Registered: 06-03-2005
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 10:42pm

ITS NOT THE STRENGTH OF THE WIND, ITS THE TWIST OF THE TORNADO!

now that we got that out there... really, its not the size, its the performance.

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Registered: 06-04-2005
Sat, 06-04-2005 - 11:50pm
I prefer bigger sizes b/c thats all I have had.I have always been with men between 6-8 inches but I like thicker ones better.It feels good(to me) to be filled up.
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Registered: 06-06-2005
Mon, 06-06-2005 - 7:13pm
I love that "stretched" feeling that I get from men with thicker penises. I dated a guy once who had a very thin penis, and while the sex was ok, that "feeling" wasn't there... my current b/f is thicker, and I sooooo love that feeling when he pushes into me...
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Registered: 06-25-2003
Mon, 06-06-2005 - 11:26pm

Like the others have said, a thicker penis just feels better. The "stuffed" feeling is one thing, but I also think there's a lot to be said simply for the increased surface area. If the penis is bigger around there's more contact taking place-even if you accecpt the idea that only the opening couple of inches of the vagina are sensitive to touch. Grab a pencil with your hand. Now grab a magic marker. Which one's touching more of your skin and thus causing more sensation? The fat one!

As far as length (and I posted this elsewhere not to long ago), the biggest thing is that a longer penis allows a man to keep more of him inside you while thrusting. If a man has a 5-inch penis and pulls out three inches, there's still 2 inside you. If a man with a 7-inch penis does the same thing, there's 4 inches left inside you which is literally twice as much. A short penis feels more "out-in-out-in" or "empty-full-empty-full" during thrusting. A long one feels more "full-even fuller-full-even fuller." There's also the thing about supposedly being able to do more positions with less effort but I can't personally vouch for that. Despite searching, I haven't heard of any positions that *only* work well with a large penis.

Speaking of positions, it drives me crazy that the same sex resources that will explain positions in terms of depth of penetration and tightness will then turn around and swear that penis size isn't a factor in sexual enjoyment. Golly, won't a longer one penetrate deeper and a thicker one fit tighter? Sex with a bigger penis is just a more physically intense experience. Some positon guides talk about hitting certain spots. A long, thick penis pretty much just hits everything all the time.

Now does any of this mean I wouldn't have fallen in love with my man if he were smaller or I'd dump him if he lost 3 inches in an accident? Absolutely not. I'd still be with him if his penis fell off entirely. But none of that takes away from the fact that his big one feels nicer inside me than a smaller one.

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Tue, 06-07-2005 - 12:43am

Is there an icon for standing ovations here?

That post deserved one.

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Tue, 06-07-2005 - 1:59am

After experiencing childbirth though, that tight, stretched out feeling isn't the least bit appealing to me personally. I don't want to replicate that feeling each time I have sex.

I'll take my "average Joe" anytime.




Edited 6/7/2005 2:01 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Tue, 06-07-2005 - 3:33pm

Of course there has to be a limit it to it. As is oft-said here, even the biggest penis is lots smaller than the smallest baby.

Any man who can replicate the stretching of childbirth with his penis needs to be safely locked away in a museum display! LOL.

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Tue, 06-07-2005 - 4:47pm

Not necessarily. When you've gone into labor, your cervix and vagina have been softened in preparation for delivery, due the influx of hormones in the system, allowing for maximum elasticity when it's needed most.

Those same hormones aren't present during intercourse so even if a larger erection isn't as big as a baby's head, it can still be very uncomfortable to many of us who've given birth. Muscles still have to stretch and that's not a pleasant feeling for me personally.

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Tue, 06-07-2005 - 5:56pm
I have helped deliver babies and that has NOTHING to do with it. At the moment of birth, everything is so, so, so, so, so stretched out due to hormones and body chemistry, etc. A woman would CERTAINLY die if she tried to give birth without that happening. Someone once told me, or I read, that a woman will be endless entertained by a penis that's the same thickness as her wrist. That's all you need. Coincidentally, my lover's is precisely the same size as my wrist lol

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