For those who prefer size, why?

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For those who prefer size, why?
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Thu, 06-02-2005 - 2:51pm
For those women who prefer large male members, why, or what, specifically makes them more enjoyable? Yes, size has been discussed ad nauseaum, but I was wondering what different people find attractive about large members (not the biggest you've had, or why samller ones are bad).

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Registered: 05-18-2003
Sun, 07-03-2005 - 12:49am
I was married for many years to a man with an everage size (lenght & girth) penis. The sex was great and I was fairly satisfied. But since I have had sex with another man with a much longer and wider penis... it is even greater - at least from the physical aspects of lovemaking. I now have mulitiple orgasms instead of just one or two and he can please me in any position becasue of his larger size. When my husband would have sex with me "dooggy" style or in many other positions, his penis was not long enough to penetrate deep enough to bring me to an orgasm. My new guy can turn me upside down and still bring me to a series of multiple orgasms. I have never felt anything like this before. So for me the size and width definitely make a difference.
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Registered: 06-28-2005
Sun, 07-03-2005 - 10:51pm
Honestly, I don't cum very often from penetration, I'm really very much a clit girl, the times I have had an orgasm through sex it was with a way above average size penis. I choose size because I have only had orgasms with deep penetration and it feels great!
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Registered: 01-13-2005
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 12:30pm
Although it's harder to cum with a smaller penis size, I am more than satisfied with my current b/f. He's much smaller than my ex-hubby but he his girth is kinda big so that helps alot for me.
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Registered: 07-05-2005
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 2:57pm

This thread being specifically aimed at women who care about size was a good idea. It seems it has encouraged more women to step forward once they see they have others beside them, and therefore are not as likely to be singled out and called shallow. Your post about deep penetration feeling great pretty much shows the claim that women can only feel the first few inches is dubious.

kaymandoo,

Your post that "Some" women prefer thickness is toned down. 'Most' women prefer thickness. Some prefer length (you left that out). Others say they don't care about size.

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Tue, 07-05-2005 - 3:11pm

Like an earlier poster, I was clitorially-oriented and seldom orgasmed with IC alone until I met a man of size.

> women can only feel the first few inches is dubious
A man with girth and large head slowly moving in/out my opening gets me off. As does moving the head within the first few inches.

A man with length and girth gives a fantastic filled sensation. Plus when he moves, inch after wonderful inch of him moves along my sensitive parts. A man of size is just able to do more with it.

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Tue, 07-05-2005 - 3:28pm

Been-there, sorry, but you have never BEEN THERE as a man. You simply cannot tell me, or any other woman, what we experience during penetration. All you know is what we tell you. And since all women are different, then "SOME" women, in my response, is appropriate.

I think MOST women acknowledge that the first couple of inches of the vagina are the most sensitive to stimulation and that the most we will feel further back is pressure. That pressure can be pleasurable for some women and not for others. But the cervix is VERY sensitive and SOME women will respond favorably to bumping and some, like myself, do not.

And no, my not mentioning length wasn't an oversight. I was responding to a post about GIRTH!




Edited 7/5/2005 3:47 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Tue, 07-05-2005 - 3:45pm
Edited.


Edited 7/5/2005 3:47 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Tue, 07-05-2005 - 3:52pm
Well katmandoo, you are correct, I haven't been a woman. However, I've looked at a number of surveys, and according to those, most women do prefer thickness. I wasn't saying you did, which is what your response was indirectly aimed towards. I was saying your post about women in general doesn't match what they say in general. I feel that because you are a firm believer against size mattering that you naturally selected a word to hold things down closer to your personal viewpoint.
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Tue, 07-05-2005 - 6:08pm

But I didn't say that size doesn't matter to anyone. I've always acknowledged that size matters a lot to some women and not at all to others. For me, no, it's not the most important aspect of a man's sexuality, nor to any women I know personally.

However, saying that girth matters to MOST, based on a few surveys, is still very presumptive, IMO. I've read surveys that say just the opposite.

Unless every woman on the planet is interviewed, then we're only talking about a small cross section of women, aren't we? And there's a world of differences in those preferences, not only generationally but culturally, etc.




Edited 7/5/2005 7:09 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Tue, 07-05-2005 - 10:14pm

I hate jumping into a debate about size, but thought I'd plug my poll:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlletstalkab&msg=15203.1

...which does state (there anyway) that girth is the most appealing.

- muttley (who wants to just go back on topic as to why women prefer bigger)

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