For those who prefer size, why?

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For those who prefer size, why?
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Thu, 06-02-2005 - 2:51pm
For those women who prefer large male members, why, or what, specifically makes them more enjoyable? Yes, size has been discussed ad nauseaum, but I was wondering what different people find attractive about large members (not the biggest you've had, or why samller ones are bad).

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Registered: 04-04-2005
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 12:08am

"Ideally, it would be great if there were no preference regarding breast size or if the breasts that come with a particular woman be a turn-on because they are "hers" no matter what their size. Like many of us feel about penises."

I just had to comment on this rain dancer, what a wonderful way to look at love "because they are hers". You've got your head on straight, my dear.

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Registered: 05-24-2005
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 1:13am

I'm with muttley here. Though I really appreciate all the responses to this thread, when I originally posted I was trying to ask a question to which one could not give the "everyone's preferences are their own" canned answer (an answer that, seems to me, has been given to almost every thread on these boards). From what people have said so far, there is a pleasurable "filled" or "stretched" sensation. I also appreciate women being truthfull and admitting that its not only the seemingly rare "size-queen" who prefers size.

Anyway, I don't mean to discourage anyone from posting, the answers so far have been enlightening.

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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 1:53am

A "size queen" is a woman who refuses to compromise on size, no matter what. No one has claimed that all women who like larger penises are "size queens", though.

And I would presume that women who prefer larger erections, particularly larger girthwise, do because of the more definite tugging on the labia with thrusting. Which, obviously would tug more definitively on the clitoral hood providing more sensation on the clitoris.

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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 7:45am

As a man, I enjoy my wife's rather smallish breasts ... they are great. I also enjoy seeing larger models as I go through the day, however, I don't ever plan on becoming more acquainted with the other models. As some one much wiser than I once said, "More than a mouthful is a waste"

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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 9:52am
Kat, I can only speak for myself,(and I'm not a size-queen), but usually when I do have an orgasm through intercourse it's not due to tugging on the labia, it's definitely due to internal stimulation of the vaginal walls.
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 11:37am

I'm simply recounting the experiences of many posters on this board who describe the feeling of the thrusting of a very wide erection. They always seem to focus on the slow initial penetration and the feelings that result.

But how can you discount the effect of the tugging? It's happening simultaneously with the vaginal stimulation?

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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 11:46am
I didn't mean to discount it, just that from my experience, it's not totally responsible for all penetrational orgasms, as is what you seemed to imply. I think that I'm a pretty good judge of where exactly my pleasure is emanating from....in fact, since posting on these boards, I've been paying very close attention...something of which I never did. tee hee
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 2:25pm
I'm sure you are observant, as I am during my own experiences. But all that in itself does not prove that the clitoris isn't the origin of our sexual pleasure either, directly or indirectly. It just proves that woman are unique and very complicated in our responses. But once fully aroused, all our senses as well, as organs, become more sensitive to stimulation, yet the origin of that pleasure is the same.


Edited 7/6/2005 2:54 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 2:58pm

...and I responded to this.

You said: "And I would presume that women who prefer larger erections, particularly larger girthwise, do because of the more definite tugging on the labia with thrusting. Which, obviously would tug more definitively on the clitoral hood providing more sensation on the clitoris."

You seem to be implying that the only reason why women love larger penises is due to the fact that it tugs on the vulva which in turn tugs the clitoris. When I, and many posters on this very board have stated that a penis(for me it doesn't have to be large) stimulates the walls of their vagina internally(whether it be via clitoral branch or some other phenomenon of women's bodies during full arousal that science hasn't yet discovered.) All that I'm saying is that there is more to some women's pleasure than just the outer-visible clitoris. It may not be for you, but depending on type of arousal, it is for them.




Edited 7/6/2005 3:07 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 3:08pm

Uh no, I didn't change anything, Rain. ALL these sensations are present with an average or large erection, depending on the woman in question...both the fullness and pressure of the girth and length AND the tugging on the outer areas related to the clitoris.

And I've already acknowledged that some women prefer larger penises for the extra sensation it gives them. I've personally noticed no difference in my experience.

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