For those who prefer size, why?

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For those who prefer size, why?
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Thu, 06-02-2005 - 2:51pm
For those women who prefer large male members, why, or what, specifically makes them more enjoyable? Yes, size has been discussed ad nauseaum, but I was wondering what different people find attractive about large members (not the biggest you've had, or why samller ones are bad).

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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 3:10pm

> can you discount the effect of the tugging? It's happening simultaneously with the vaginal stimulation?

Could it be from Kat's perspective, homo sapiens genital size is an evolutionary dead end. A 450 pound male gorilla on a good day can sport a 2" erection, which can fertilize a very large lady gorilla. And, with an active finger, he could please anyone. Why the extra wastage for homo sapiens?

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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 3:12pm
Sorry about that Kat(I edited my post). I realized that you didn't change your post, I just didn't remember reading it. tee hee
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 3:12pm
You're assuming that most men sport 10" penises though....they don't. IF the average vagina is between 4-6" long, then an average penis would fit just about right. Where's the "wastage?"


Edited 7/6/2005 3:18 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 3:15pm

No problem. I'm really not trying to be argumentative either.

I just feel that too many men and women feel sexually inadequate as it is and seeing these types of threads only exacerbates that feeling, IMO.

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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 3:22pm
...that's why I try to specify that for me, size isn't a factor--as even a little finger can satisfy my urge to be penetrated. I'm not a size queen, but I do enjoy being penetrated even if it's accompanied by clitoral stimulation. ;-)
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 3:36pm

katmandoo,

Let's start with size queens. They not only demand thickness, they demand long length also. This shows there is more to it than just the clitoris and g-spot. This also shows that in women can get pleasure from long length even if they aren't size queens. It's just not as important to them as it is to size queens. At a forum I'm from, we study all of the vagina and even beyond.

Maybe you already know this, but I'll go over it anyway. Deeper inside the vagina than the g-spot is the fornix. It's made up of two parts-anterior fornix and posterior fornix. The posterior fornix is closer to the bottom vagina wall than the anterior is. There are many reports of women getting intense pleasure and even intense orgasms when that area is worked on my a guy that knows what he's doing. Shorter men can't even reach it when a woman is fully aroused and expanded.
On the other side of the bottom vaginal wall is the Pouch of Douglas, also known as the cul de sac (cds). This area is reported to create very intense pleasure and orgasms in some women. In order to stimulate that area, a guy must be long enough to push (stretch) the bottom vagina wall into it well. She needs to be fully aroused and therefore elasticated, and he needs to be long enough for that to happen.

There's more to it than only the clitoris and g-spot (which are no doubt great areas but are the only spots you speak of.) Then there is also simply the full feeling women can like.

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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 3:52pm

Yes, SOME size queens demand length along with girth...not all though.

And yes, there are many areas of potential stimulation in SOME women. As you stated, some women will experience extreme pleasure at having their cul de sac stretched to the max. I do not. I've experienced childbirth and it comes a little too close to that experience for my taste personally. LOL!

But the clitoris, which contains double the nerve endings of the penis, is the source of the pleasure we experience in the various areas of our bodies. No, it may not end there but it begins there.

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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 4:19pm
...actually Kat, it does end there for me. ;-) When I orgasm(no matter the source), I feel it all the way from the tip of the clitoris down to the pelvic floor, around and up through the vagina and uterus. I feel spasms throughout the whole inner and outer regions. It really doesn't matter where they originate from; clitoral only, vaginal only, or combo clitoral/vagina, the end result is just about the same. For me, although arousal may be felt differently, orgasms really aren't...except in intensity. Alls well.... that ends well. ;-)
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 4:27pm
Yes, as do I. Most orgasmic contractions are felt throughout the pelvis, not just locally.
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 4:46pm

I just saw this:

"As you stated, some women will experience extreme pleasure at having their cul de sac stretched to the max."

Kat, it doesn't feel anything at all like childbirth. It's pleasure only--no stretching feeling. The vagina is amazing, and believe me, if it was in the least bit painful, no one would be allowed even near me. ;-) There's no stretching-out feeling at all, just pleasurable friction and resistance.

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