For those who prefer size, why?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2005
For those who prefer size, why?
106
Thu, 06-02-2005 - 2:51pm
For those women who prefer large male members, why, or what, specifically makes them more enjoyable? Yes, size has been discussed ad nauseaum, but I was wondering what different people find attractive about large members (not the biggest you've had, or why samller ones are bad).

Pages

Avatar for katmandoo2001
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 07-07-2005 - 4:48pm
Well Mutt...I think you're in luck. It sounds like there are plenty of women out there who are willing to kick you out of bed because you just don't measure up to their expectations and standards. Happy now? LOL!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-05-2005
Thu, 07-07-2005 - 6:24pm
It may very well be your cervix he's hitting, but that's not "bottoming out" the way the term normally describes. When people speak of "Bottoming out" they are talking about hitting the vagina bottom wall. The cervix isn't located at the bottom either---the cervix isn't located that deep. Why is he hitting it so much. It tilts after so much time, and then will only be hit by bad angling. Perhaps he's hittng your bottom, and not cervix? May I ask how long he is (non bone pressed and bone pressed measurements, measuring on top- the inbetween measurements between those twotypes of measurements is about what is practically used). I'm fairly certain you will say you don't know, because afterall it doesn't matter. But it would help in figuring out what he's hitting.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Thu, 07-07-2005 - 10:13pm
The guy I am currently dating is about a 7 1/2 length and is huge in girth.
Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2003
Thu, 07-07-2005 - 11:55pm

>>Happy now? LOL!<<

Excellent! I'd much rather have an honest shallow woman any day rather than a dishonest, "But, I just don't want to hurt his feelings so I'll play with myself behind his back and not tell him what really pleases me." Not worth the effort.

Imagine your SO secretly telling his best friend that he thought you were fat.

Well, if he's not telling you that to your face, how sure are you he isn't to his friends??

It's not a matter of trust, it's a matter of predictability and context.

Avatar for katmandoo2001
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 12:57am

Thanks for your kind concern for my and DH's sexual issues, Been. But really, after almost 30 yrs. together, we've figured most of them out! LOL!

However, I never said that this happens "so often." It has happened in the past but changing angles of penetration and his awareness seems to have helped.

Yes, you are correct, I don't know my DH's length, never asked, never measured. Don't really see the point. He may know though. My best guesstimate would be anywhere from 6-7." But without knowing MY length, as well, then there is no way for YOU to figure out where his penis is within my vagina.

But believe or not, I KNOW when he's bottoming out AND hitting my cervix. Absolutely shocking, isn't it? LOL!




Edited 7/8/2005 1:12 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
Avatar for katmandoo2001
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 1:04am

Well, MOST happily married and sexually satisfied men and women continue to "play with themselves" privately, don't they? Doesn't always mean that one is being dishonest or secretive about what pleases them.

And what if my DH and I have differing opinions of what is fat and what isn't? We disagree all the time but yet, we're still happily married. I don't think one has to be brutal to be honest nor need to share EVERY single thought with a spouse. And I DO think it's about trust.

But I get your point and I agree that it takes two to have good sex.




Edited 7/8/2005 1:08 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2004
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 9:09am
Kat good answer...Women are different depths just as men are different lengths.. Ive never had an issue with my size..Was a little intimidated when my wife told me of her lover who was a nine incher.(Im 7)..but she also told me he was the worst lover shes had, and never even came close to cumming with him(no matter what he did)He did hit her cervix and she hated it...as for bottoming out or hitting bottom, for some women its the same thing....cervixes come in all angles and some women "tent" differently than others...Im guessing some of the shorter canals Ive encountered may have been a tilted uterus...My ex had that and it was surgically repaired which did give her more room , but she was still fairly shallow.
For some women 7" is too much, for some its a perfect fit........Im sure for some, it isnt enough.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 10:29am
Nicely stated, humpdaddy. I'm shocked that its still such a wonder to some people how so many of us prefer to describe our sexual relationships as the way we do, particularly those of us who DO enjoy the CDS and all. :]

 

C  H  A  R  A  C  T  E  R

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 10:41am

>>So by saying that the clitoris is a command center for all female stimulation, during intercourse, isn't correct, since the cds doesn't take orders from the clitoris.<<

Good point...makes me think of a common term used by those women for the cds as dying to be if I'm remembering it properly. That "itch" has been reported to be there regardless any clitoris stimulation too.

As everyone already pointed out though, different women have differing functioning systems...good enough for me. :)

 

C  H  A  R  A  C  T  E  R

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2004
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 10:49am
One can lose weight. One cannot change the size of their penis. I just don't get the hangup men have over something they have NO CONTROL over. I'm yet to meet a woman who didn't value a nice smile and good sense of humor over the 'ideal penis'. Unlike most men, sex is much more emotional for a lot of women i've known and when a woman feels Safe, Desired and happy, sex is going to be VERY good.

Pages