Thought Threesome would be fun...
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| Fri, 09-17-2004 - 11:07am |
I'm new here, and I'm just looking to find some people that might have the same experience I've had.
Last night my bf and I invited a friend (F) into our bedroom. We've been together for 3 years, great communication, very healthy relationship, and this is something we've been toying with for a while now.
Last night everything was fine, I was the center of attention, and everything was fun until I (in an effort to make sure our F friend was having fun) said to my bf that penetration was ok. This was something I'd said I wouldn't be comfortable with right beforehand, but for some reason took back (?)
Well, I saw my bf inside my friend and FREAKED. I told them we had to stop, I couldn't go on, and they both seemed to understand. We parted ways and my bf comforted me telling me he's with me, he doesn't want anyone else, I have nothing to worry about, etc. But for some reason I'm still in horrible shape today :( I don't know if I'm jealous or what, but for some reason when I saw him inside her I just snapped.
Has anyone been through this? Anyone have any advice?

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Hello,
I haven't had the experience you had but i thought about it often.
I strongly dislike these judgmental posts. Based on WHAT are you saying this???
I've never done a threesome, so I really can't comment on it. But I can comment on making ridiculous assumptions.
I strongly dislike these judgmental posts. Based on WHAT are you saying this???
I've never done a threesome, so I really can't comment on it. But I can comment on making ridiculous assumptions.<<
-I don't really see anything wrong with this opinion.
You know, the funny thing is that exactly what you described (that strange feeling in your stomach) is exactly what I would get before we did it. I would think about him touching someone else and would make me feel sick to my stomach.
We're having arguments about it now, I'm still feeling jealous, and a relationship that was pretty much conflict-free is now tense a lot of the time.
To anyone that's considering it and isn't sure, I wish I would have been more cautious and stuck with him just watching. I used to fantasize a lot about threesomes and now (at least for a while) it's ruined for me. I think about them now and I get that sick feeling.
Jealousy can be really toxic - be careful. I guess that's the lesson I've learned from this.
i was actually considering having a 3some with my fiance but after reading your post and frieds comments i don't think i will. I got that sick feeling to my stomach thinking about him and another girl. I dont really know if its jealousy b/c im not the jealous type but at least i know i would feel sick. I had a friend who had a 3 some and she literally ran out of the room 2 throw up, their relationship ended a week later after being on an emotional rollercoaster as she calls it. I don't even want to imagine the face he would put when penetrating her i think i would freak out too. Thanks for your post i almost ruined my healthy relationship!
Hopefully you can workthrough your relationship and just sort of 4get it!.
Good luck!
That is a really odd thing to say. The thing that makes for great sex is emotional connection - the best looking person in the world can be a lousy lover. Also, one off sex can't ever compare to sex with someone that you know and love.
I have also tried group sex...and gave it up because it wasn't for me. But I can tell you this: none of the people could hold a candle to my DH. If anything, the experience left me feeling so 'empty' that it gave me a whole new appreciation for my DH and our sex life.
Please don't underestimate your husband. He'd only feel that way about her if he was as shallow as a saucer.
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