Thoughts on your SO getting a Massage

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thoughts on your SO getting a Massage
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Mon, 11-05-2007 - 8:27pm

Another iVillage video topic that we can add comments to!

Is It OK for Your Significant Other to Get a Massage?
http://video.ivillage.com/player/?id=179060







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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 7:20am

"A PROFESSIONAL massage is just that. You're not bonking the masseuse and the masseuse isn't there to be bonked. What's the problem??"

I think some people are too jealous to handle the thought of their SO being with a member of the opposite sex regardless of what the activity is. I think some do fantasize that their massage will lead to more -- which has also prompted a lot of bad massage humor (like the woman named Tank being the masseuse). For others, the talk you hear of happy endings is probably something that makes them wonder about the activity. Sort of like a few bad apples spoiling the whole bunch.

Now, as for the couple on the video .... they're aren't my favorite pair to watch either, lol.



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Registered: 12-25-2006
Fri, 11-30-2007 - 7:52am

I've said this on MHM, I believe...but DH gets a weekly massage by a female massage therapist (licensed in our state) for his back.











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Fri, 11-30-2007 - 1:51pm

I agree 100% with you Moon.

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Mon, 12-03-2007 - 7:20pm

Oh Good Grief! I don't even know where to start, except to say that that blonde woman has NO business advising other people on their relationships. Massage is therapeutic and sensual, but decidedly not sexual. Worrying about your partner having sex during a massage is like worrying that they're going to have an affair at the doctor's office or in the locker room. Its also an insult to the professionalism of massage therapists.

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Fri, 12-07-2007 - 5:18pm

I'd like to clarify for all that the person who comes over for us is not a therapist - just specializes in massages and yoga.


Our moments started after the first few times he was over. I got comfortable with him after some time. Although he was still in the same room and helping the lady who came over earlier, after some time she stopped after she asked me if it was ok. We still did the same routine - I'd use the towel and keep my panties on. It was awkward the first time he slipped them lower while I lay on my stomach. We progressed to me going back to no panties - don't remember when.


My massages are not required medically, so it's only question of relaxation - and

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