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Threesome ?
| Fri, 10-29-2004 - 7:36am |
Is it true that most men would ACTUALLY engage in a threesome if offered(whether or not they're in a relationship), or is this simply a myth? I know that not ALL men would, but it seems from what I've read on these boards and what men in real life have expressed, it may be true. Assuming you were single, and/or your partner agreed to it, and STD's were screened for, would most men? How about the women?

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Wouldn't surprise me in the slightest. If it's anything to do with sex, men seem at least twice as likely to want to try it!
"If it's anything to do with sex, men seem at least twice as likely to want to try it! "
I'd say it's more of:
"If it's anything to do with sex(WITH OTHERS), men seem at least twice as likely to want to try it!
Women are just as sexual as men--though maybe not with respect to multiples. *laugh* ;-)
I'm a 30-something married male. My DW and I had this conversation over the weekend. Some mutual friends of ours broke up recently over this very issue. The BF had asked his GF to engage in a FFM threesome several times and she had reluctantly participated, under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol. The most recent time he asked her, she politely declined. Needless to say, they have since split up.
My DW had been talking with the GF on the phone this weekend and later she asked me if a threesome was a popular male fantasy. I told her that yes, it was. Then she asked if it was a specific fantasy of mine. I told her again yes, it was. Like most of the other guys who have responded, I will say that the idea of engaging in a threesome with my beautiful wife and a second sexy woman at the same time is extremely erotic. HOWEVER, I would never not ask her to engage in this type of sexual activity because I knew that she was not interested. I will admit that the reality of making that fantasy a reality is fraught with complications and probably better left in the fantasy world.
Having said that, I will also say that I had an experience with a threesome in my single days that was very satisfying (for me). In college, I was dating a girl and one night we were messing around (making out, some light petting) on the sofa in her apartment. Her roommate returned unexpectedly and "caught" us with our hands in each other's clothes. We all had a nervous laugh about it and the roommate excused herself and retired to her bedroom. We did the same and quickly removed the rest of our clothes and were hungrily devouring each other's bodies. The next thing I know, the roommate is standing next to the bed wearing nothing but a smile. She asked if she could watch and my girlfriend asked if that was o.k. with me. Being the gentleman that I am, I agreed and we continued exploring each others bodies while the roommate watched nearby. Every now and then, she would reach over and stroke my penis with her hand or gently caress my GF's breasts. Soon, she moved closer and told me to li back on the bed while she and my GF pleasured me. I couldn't believe this was happening! My GF straddled my penis while the roommate straddled my face. My GF also reached around and was caressing the roommate's breasts while they doing this. I will admit that it was very hot and I was extremely satisfied by the experience. I guess it was the spontaneity. I have often wondered if I would have been able to go through with it if we had "planned" the encounter in advance.
To me, it all boils down to whether or not you and your SO can seperate sex from every other aspect of your life together. If you can both see a sexual experience as just that and nothing more, as well as avoid the issues of jealousy connected with who gets to do what with who, then you might enjoy trying a threesome if you can find a suitable 3rd partner. But it takes open, honest, frank communication by both parties for it work. Otherwise, it is usually a recipe for disaster.
Great discussion!
I don't know if that means that I can't separate love and sex, or that means that I can. Whatever. I do know that if *I* love someone, I can't have sex with someone else and the thought of them being with someone else is horrific!
Edited 11/1/2004 9:55 pm ET ET by inquisitive_lurker
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