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Threesome
| Tue, 06-01-2004 - 11:05am |
Hubby and I had a threesome(our fourth) with a man a month ago who was incredible in bed, and who was well equipped. Unlike all of the other threesomes(two were FMF), he is a man that my husband works with. We socialize with him often, and he's unattached(has been for almost two years), and he's sexy as all hell! I find myself thinking and fantasizing about him all of the time, wanting to have more sex with him, and I believe that I'm emotionally involved to some extent. He was over yesterday for the holiday, and at one point he looked at me and said we have to "get together" real soon, and then he winked. Has anyone else ever gotten so attached over the third-person in a threesome? If so, how did you proceed?

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You are wildly attracted to this man and that will lead to problems in your marriage. Sexual and otherwise. Most people who are married and are attracted to the opposite sex, we don't make love to them! Threesomes need to be neutral and that is a hard combination to find because someone is bound to be attracted to someone! But having it neutral is key!
"Nah....and I haven't told my hubby because I don't want to hurt him".
Exactly! It WOULD hurt him so why keep the action going with this other man? This other man knows you are married and that you are horny for him. Why wouldn't he want to have intercourse with you? He's a man, ain't he? He will only screw you and be done with you - maybe a few times over. Then, you will be left with your hubby only! Ask yourself, will your hubby be enough for you after having Mr. Hotstuff inside you?
"Comparing him would serve no purpose". But you already are comparing him! Look at yur next sentence!! "There's always the chance that the third-wheel will be better. My only problem is that sex with hubby seems trite compared to threesomes, particularly with Mr. Hotstuff"
This situation is nothing but trouble for you and your hubby!
If it would be hurting is feelings, I wouldn't think you'd want to do it at that cost.
I can see how it might be exciting and all, but the price of the relationship is quite high.
Good luck to you.
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