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Threesome
| Tue, 06-01-2004 - 11:05am |
Hubby and I had a threesome(our fourth) with a man a month ago who was incredible in bed, and who was well equipped. Unlike all of the other threesomes(two were FMF), he is a man that my husband works with. We socialize with him often, and he's unattached(has been for almost two years), and he's sexy as all hell! I find myself thinking and fantasizing about him all of the time, wanting to have more sex with him, and I believe that I'm emotionally involved to some extent. He was over yesterday for the holiday, and at one point he looked at me and said we have to "get together" real soon, and then he winked. Has anyone else ever gotten so attached over the third-person in a threesome? If so, how did you proceed?

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Some people feel that the risks involved alone, is in and of itself, making the statement that our SO can so easily be discarded or dropped.
What is confusing me is why you would think that me fantasizing and comparing my hubby to this or any man is deceitful? I accept that having intimate relations with another person will bring about those feelings and so does my hubby. We allow them to happen not just pretend that they will not happen. I think we're more honest then those who claim not to compare and fantasize. We're suppose to have sex and then shut off all sexual feelings after the actual deed is done? Makes little sense. If two people agreed to have sex with a third party, then craving, fantasizing, enjoying, comparing, along with many others related to it, is going to likely surface. If anything, we are more honest and open, the only difference being that we laid it all out on the table in the beginning and that includes the worst case scenarios. I know that my hubby may find another woman sexually satisfying, he may fantasize for weeks or months, and he may crave her after it's all over. There's no need to hear disclose those details. I accept that they may exist and so does he.
>>Group sex actually is a selfish act, when you think about it - you are admitting to your partner that they are just not enough to fulfill your selfish desires<<
ROFLMAO!!!! Well isn't that the pot calling the kettle black. Man, I about peed myself when I read your post. WOW
Leticia
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