Threesome question ...

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Registered: 08-04-2004
Threesome question ...
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Thu, 05-22-2008 - 7:18pm

Not sure if this is the right board to ask this question to, so if someone knows of a better board to talk about this subject, please let me know.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2004
Thu, 05-22-2008 - 8:20pm
Is this the wrong board?
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-08-2008
Thu, 05-22-2008 - 9:28pm
You are in a bit of a pickle arent you?
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 05-22-2008 - 9:35pm

Had you both discussed this beforehand? Me, personally, I wouldn't



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Registered: 08-03-2003
Fri, 05-23-2008 - 7:27am
This is just my opinion since you are preggers why not ask him to wait at least until you are not. You have a lot of emotions going threw you right now and just tell him it might be too much for you to see him with another woman at this point. Lets face it when you are pregnant so many things are different with your emotions and your body. You could react to seeing him with a woman a different way because of the changes your body is going threw at this time. I would ask him to wait ..... After you have the baby then you can talk about it. Or if you feel you need to do this maybe tell him that seeing him with another woman would be to much for you to handle. At this point you should be truthful with him
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Registered: 05-13-2008
Fri, 05-23-2008 - 8:05am
Having a threesome can get complicated, and one of the reasons is this very scenario .
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Registered: 08-04-2004
Fri, 05-23-2008 - 2:57pm

I think, for now, I will use this as an excuse.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 05-23-2008 - 3:37pm

You gotta talk about it more. Don't just do it to make him happy. Maybe stop doing the 3some with this other guy all together. To you being with another man is all about the dick, well maybe to your husband being with another woman is just all about a different vagina.


Whatever you do, don't move onto a 4some without resolving some issues first. If you're not happy now, why will doing a 4some make it any easier for you?

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Registered: 08-04-2004
Fri, 05-23-2008 - 4:04pm

That is what he says.

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Registered: 06-29-2006
Fri, 05-23-2008 - 5:41pm
If you are content to have sex with another man while your husband watches, but insist on denying him the same
freedoms, then you along with any third party consider him to be a cuckold servant, and not to be considered as YOUR equal.
As far as having sex with another individual while you are pregnant goes, if it's good for the goose, it should be good for the gander and if it isn't, then your marriage is doomed to failure, eventually.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sat, 05-24-2008 - 4:41am

>>I have some thinking to do. <<

You sure do.
He's not going to be satisfied with MMF even if he agrees to it. Problem is that you have double-standards and can't get past them. Pregnant or not, of course he wants to bang someone-else just the same that you want dick. I don't see that pregnancy really has a lot to do with the current issue when you dig a bit deeper.

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