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| Tue, 11-07-2006 - 4:04pm |
hey guys and girls, my guy and i have been talking of having another girl in our relationship. we all live together and have a threesome relationship. the thought of another woman pleasuring my man sexually, makes me really excited. watching them doing it makes me even more excited. i think im weird. is there such relationship out there? any feedbacks would be great.

Do the three of you already live together and you and your b/f intend to make it sexual?
Or do you think that you should find a girl to live with you and have sex with you?
Whatever the situation, just remember that while the IDEA is exciting the reality can be very different. When it's a fantasy you can control everything in your head - who does what to who and even what they do and what it looks like when they do it. But in reality you can't control anything except what you do. Those other two people do their own thing. They might do things that you don't like, or didn't expect, or just didn't even think would happen. I had a threesome and it was my g/f's idea. It went great until I ejeculated inside her g/f. My g/f burst into tears saying that "You didn't have to do that". It had never crossed her mind that she wouldn't like that, or that it would happen like that.
And that was just a one-off sexual experience between us. With you guys it would be an ongoing thing. Who knows who is going to get emotionally attached to the other girl - or if the other girl takes a fancy to your b/f and doesn't want to share him!
Think very carefully about this. Talk to your b/f more.
thanks for your reply.
we were thinking of looking for a girl and live with us. i think the IDEA is exciting but when we actually have it going... it might be totally different.
you're right. one of us might get way too involve with the other person.
i am still interested of the idea to have a threesome tho...
I really think that finding a girl to live with you is the wrong thing to do.
For starters, finding someone that wants to go along with this is going to be very, very difficult.
Secondly, living together just means that you all get too emotionally involved. Suddenly your b/f has two g/f's. Good for him but bad for the two girls. He's only going to choose a girl that he likes so don't go thinking that you'll remain number one in his life. There will be days where it will seem like she is the g/f and you aren't. He's going to listen to her at times and do what she wants and probably agree with her and disagree with you. Unless you're Mormon I really don't think that this is even worth considering!!!! It WILL end in tears.
Many couple spend ages working out guidelines and rules like " Neither partner spends time alone or sees the third person on their own" just in an effort to prevent emotional connections and jealousies and even love happening. Living together will just be a disaster for you.
You can still advertise and find women that might be interested in a threesome that is not live-in. That'll be a thousand times easier to find that sort of woman that just wants a casual thing. But be careful. BE absolutely sure and certain of yourself and of you b/f over this. Plenty of relationships have been blown apart because it seemed like fun thing to do. Yes, many work but why be one of the one's that fails!
Hey there,
While I agree with what Westridge is saying, I'm not going to judge you & tell you that this is a horrible idea. I had a threesome experience with my boyfriend and a mutual friend. All of us were consenting and we had rules laid out beforehand. The only problem was, the girl was more interested in being with me than with my BF, she didn't want to do anything with him. Not only did this insult me in a way, but it kind of freaked me out.
After this I realized that she didn't want to have a threesome, she just wanted to be with me. After the first experience we had with her I told her that I didn't think it was a good idea to continue doing this because someone was going to get hurt. I also had terrible feelings about myself after doing this. It was mainly her & I being intimate and my BF sitting around watching us. He assured me that he enjoyed it and wasn't jealous, but afterwards I felt as if I'd been unfaithful to him, because he was not involved.
This is a matter that you really need to think through.. objectively. Talk to your BF & create situations and rules that you will stick by if you plan on going thru with this.
Good luck and I hope everything works out for you!! :)
>>While I agree with what Westridge is saying, I'm not going to judge you & tell you that this is a horrible idea.<<
I didn't judge her. I just said that I thought that it was a very bad idea. Having a female sex-buddy living under the same roof as her and her b/f is going to be trouble. Take your case for example, imagine how much harder and more awkward that would have been if the girl was living with you and your b/f!
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Finally found someone looking for the same. I have dreamed about this type of relationship all my life. To LIVE in a treesome relationship. I have always felt it and know it in my heart that a threesome relationship could work as a matter of fact I think it could be the ultimate relationship. My guy was initially reluctant (spell right?) about it. He called it a "fantasy" and that it would not work". Initially he thought "i was out of my mind" or plain crazy! Now, we are seroiusly talking about it and seriously looking for another woman to live with us in a threesome relationship. We have talked about everything: living arrangments, living conditions, jelousy, insecurites. What about if down the road. We get a kick out of it. We have so much fun planning what we call "our own unconventional little family" To live in a threesome relationship. Go for it! Keep me posted.