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| Sun, 03-27-2005 - 11:53pm |
Ok... I made a huge mistake.. and that mistake was telling my boyfriend of 7 months that id have a threesome with him and some random girl. Its not like he asked for it or pressures me because i brought it up thinking i wanted it too.. But now just the thought of another girl looking at my man makes me see red. I know i couldnt handle it if she went to touch him or possibly even look at him.. So now .. Ive gotta tell him that i cant do it... how should i tell him without making it seem like im a tease?

You tell him that you can't do it. You tell him it was a fun fantasy but you want it to stay that way.
Many relationships have been destroyed because one or both partners were afraid to respect their own personal boundries.
Peace.
Scott.
Unless you know of a single woman who is willing to join you for a threesome there is a very good chance you will be searching for a very long time and especially if you are looking for a straight single woman.
With that said it sounds as though a lot of communication that should have occurred did not. The type of discussions that need to occurr are those in regards to boundries and scenarios before beginning your search. From your posting it sounds as though you have not had these discussions and feel that if you purusue a single woman without these discussions that encounter will have drama. Drama is something that should not occurr if communication is in place.
My recommendation is to have a few discussions regarding this and see what your feelings are afterwards. If you are still feeling the same then pursuing a threesome is not worth it.
Take it from a guy, we just want to pretend we're doing it with others. Here's some ideas:
Dress up like another woman, act out as if you were someone else
Watch a porn of 3 somes with him.
Have phone sex over the speaker phone with someone else
Suggest two guys for you.