Tip for Guys
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| Sat, 04-21-2007 - 9:44pm |
Tip of the Day (for guys)
Romance a thing of the past? Relationship lose its fire? Bedroom play about as exciting as watching flies mate?
Well, guess what? It isn't just your fault. It is your woman's fault as well.
Regardless of all that, it only takes one party to liven it back up. A relationship is only as good as what you give – and most generally, the more ya' give, the more your mate wants to give back to you just by default.
If you want your woman to feel as if you are the center of her universe then you are damn sure going to have to make her feel that way.
Words won't cut it.
Only actions will.
A lot of guys n' gals are under the impression that romance has to be planned, perhaps an expensive affair of sorts. Well, guess what? Those times are nice, but that is not what true romance is.
Romance can be extraordinarily extravagant and last for many hours at a time. It can also be extremely spontaneous and full of fire, passion, and emotion.
You don't have to lay your woman down in a bed of roses every time you are feeling a lil' romantic.
How about while you are walking through the streets, hand in hand, you suddenly break away from her and shout out to the world: "I love you, baby girl!"
How about being in the grocery store, perhaps the least romantic place of them all, and surprising her with the kiss of her lifetime at the checkout line? Just grab her arm, spin her around and kiss her like you mean it! Show her you aren't ashamed of her, and in fact are damn proud of her. Show her you aren't afraid to show her off to God and everyone.
Make her feel like a woman.
How about coming home from work early and meeting her in the kitchen while she is cooking… Sneak up on her, turn her to face you, and make love to her – right there – with no words spoken. Rip her clothes off and show her you want her, you need her. Sit her on the counter, grab the back of her head, press your lips together, and make love to that woman!
Be spontaneous. Be creative.
Express yourself honestly and completely.
You may find that type of fiery, in-your-face romance makes her feel more special, wanted, needed, and loved than all the roses and serenades in the world.
There is a time and place for bubble baths for two, beds made of roses, and candlelit boat rendezvous'…
There is also a time for making love to her in the bathroom of your favorite restaurant; the thrill of maybe being caught goes a long way.
-Temujin

Thanks for the welcome, Misty! Ya' all have a very interesting board; I write on these topics all of the time lol
-Temujin
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